Disciplining kids is one of the most frustrating challenges a parent has to learn in his or her lifetime.
What makes it so difficult? And what are the things that make it so hard for some? The answer to these questions might not be that difficult.
Discipline is teaching your kids to act properly in public, to respect others and to have solid judgment between right and wrong.
Discipline can give your child the self confidence he needs to socialize.
It also gives your kids the ability to overcome difficult situations that will come his way throughout his lifetime.
It doesn't mean that if you are having a hard time disciplining your child you are automatically doing something wrong.
Every child is unique and needs varying ways of instilling discipline.
What parents need to do is to get the right mix.
Consistency is crucial in discipline.
Remember that your child is closely observing you in the countless situations you are both in when it comes to discipline.
Know your objectives and desired behavior from him.
Do not give in to his or her tantrums.
Make it clear to them that putting up a fight with you is useless.
You win all the time.
Children will always test your limits.
Make sure you stick to a definite standard.
Important things to remember: Take control of yourself.
Never yell in front of your kids.
They will learn from you that yelling in the midst of temper is ok.
If you think you are losing control, regain your composure before continuing to talk to your kids.
Do not focus on criticisms.
Make it clear that it is the misbehavior you are after.
This will reassure your child of the unconditional love you are very willing to give him 24/7, regardless of what he has done.
Do not give praise too much.
This will make the "praise" less valuable.
But also do not forget to be positive about the good things your kids do inside or outside the house.
Dwell more in positive reinforcement.
Avoid bribery.
Rewards are more appropriate.
Bribery is given before work is done and puts you in a weak position.
Rewards are given after effort is given, which helps your child to understand the lesson of life better.
Last but not the least, be a good example - Always.
Walk your talk.
If you want your kids to keep their beds everyday, do the same with yours.
This will give your child the best picture of what is ideal, and what is not.
What makes it so difficult? And what are the things that make it so hard for some? The answer to these questions might not be that difficult.
Discipline is teaching your kids to act properly in public, to respect others and to have solid judgment between right and wrong.
Discipline can give your child the self confidence he needs to socialize.
It also gives your kids the ability to overcome difficult situations that will come his way throughout his lifetime.
It doesn't mean that if you are having a hard time disciplining your child you are automatically doing something wrong.
Every child is unique and needs varying ways of instilling discipline.
What parents need to do is to get the right mix.
Consistency is crucial in discipline.
Remember that your child is closely observing you in the countless situations you are both in when it comes to discipline.
Know your objectives and desired behavior from him.
Do not give in to his or her tantrums.
Make it clear to them that putting up a fight with you is useless.
You win all the time.
Children will always test your limits.
Make sure you stick to a definite standard.
Important things to remember: Take control of yourself.
Never yell in front of your kids.
They will learn from you that yelling in the midst of temper is ok.
If you think you are losing control, regain your composure before continuing to talk to your kids.
Do not focus on criticisms.
Make it clear that it is the misbehavior you are after.
This will reassure your child of the unconditional love you are very willing to give him 24/7, regardless of what he has done.
Do not give praise too much.
This will make the "praise" less valuable.
But also do not forget to be positive about the good things your kids do inside or outside the house.
Dwell more in positive reinforcement.
Avoid bribery.
Rewards are more appropriate.
Bribery is given before work is done and puts you in a weak position.
Rewards are given after effort is given, which helps your child to understand the lesson of life better.
Last but not the least, be a good example - Always.
Walk your talk.
If you want your kids to keep their beds everyday, do the same with yours.
This will give your child the best picture of what is ideal, and what is not.