"Destiny" more accurate.
Some people like to refer to that as "Potential".
What IS your potential? It's whatever you decide it is.
Other people do not determine your potential.
Your parents, your boss, your spouse, your therapist, your priest, rabbi or minister, do not determine YOUR potential.
It is unfortunate however that so many of us allow others to do exactly that.
We have a problem.
We seek counsel.
We listen to counsel.
Counsel expects us to act upon their advice.
If we do and it fails, they're embarrassed; if we don't and we fail, we get to hear, "See.
I told you.
" Damned if we do, damned if we don't.
So, how can we weigh the odds in our favor so we rarely need to seek that kind of advice? 1.
First, realize, it's your dream.
They're your goals.
You would not have the dream in your heart if you weren't already equipped to make them come true.
If they've not yet come to pass, it means its either not time or you've not prepared properly for them.
If your dream is to take a two week vacation every year with your family but you get the time off but don't have the money, you've not fully prepared.
The vacation is always there waiting, but you haven't done what's required to get it.
2.
Put yourself in a healthy environment.
Physically, emotionally, spiritually.
Once you have those key elements lined up, your mind will be free to address how to put yourself in financial health.
Maybe it's time to make some changes in your life and maybe some of those changes are the bad habits you've entrenched yourself in.
Take inventory of yourself and your environment; this includes some members of your family and friends.
If they're not conducive with your goals, better make the required adjustments.
3.
Don't talk about the way you are, talk about the way you want to be.
It's the old, "garbage in, garbage out", syndrome.
People who live with tolerance and adjust to it, learn to function, dysfunctionally, in that tolerance.
If you live or work in an environment that is generally negative, causing you to feel uncomfortable, you're enduring tolerance.
That tolerance needs to be broken before you can ever move forward.
Start by filling your mind with positive words, sentences, phrases and quotes from inspirational people.
Write them down in a notebook and read as many of them as you can before you go to bed.
Your mind will relax and allow those words to take root and create thoughts for better opportunity for you.
It's all about "game".
Those who "got game" rock and you want to be just like them.
If you've "got no game", you can ride the pine and watch, or begin developing better skills.
I hope these action points give you some direction and you share them with others you know who may need a gentle push.
If you would like more information on business and how to use this information, please visit my site listed in my bio.
Some people like to refer to that as "Potential".
What IS your potential? It's whatever you decide it is.
Other people do not determine your potential.
Your parents, your boss, your spouse, your therapist, your priest, rabbi or minister, do not determine YOUR potential.
It is unfortunate however that so many of us allow others to do exactly that.
We have a problem.
We seek counsel.
We listen to counsel.
Counsel expects us to act upon their advice.
If we do and it fails, they're embarrassed; if we don't and we fail, we get to hear, "See.
I told you.
" Damned if we do, damned if we don't.
So, how can we weigh the odds in our favor so we rarely need to seek that kind of advice? 1.
First, realize, it's your dream.
They're your goals.
You would not have the dream in your heart if you weren't already equipped to make them come true.
If they've not yet come to pass, it means its either not time or you've not prepared properly for them.
If your dream is to take a two week vacation every year with your family but you get the time off but don't have the money, you've not fully prepared.
The vacation is always there waiting, but you haven't done what's required to get it.
2.
Put yourself in a healthy environment.
Physically, emotionally, spiritually.
Once you have those key elements lined up, your mind will be free to address how to put yourself in financial health.
Maybe it's time to make some changes in your life and maybe some of those changes are the bad habits you've entrenched yourself in.
Take inventory of yourself and your environment; this includes some members of your family and friends.
If they're not conducive with your goals, better make the required adjustments.
3.
Don't talk about the way you are, talk about the way you want to be.
It's the old, "garbage in, garbage out", syndrome.
People who live with tolerance and adjust to it, learn to function, dysfunctionally, in that tolerance.
If you live or work in an environment that is generally negative, causing you to feel uncomfortable, you're enduring tolerance.
That tolerance needs to be broken before you can ever move forward.
Start by filling your mind with positive words, sentences, phrases and quotes from inspirational people.
Write them down in a notebook and read as many of them as you can before you go to bed.
Your mind will relax and allow those words to take root and create thoughts for better opportunity for you.
It's all about "game".
Those who "got game" rock and you want to be just like them.
If you've "got no game", you can ride the pine and watch, or begin developing better skills.
I hope these action points give you some direction and you share them with others you know who may need a gentle push.
If you would like more information on business and how to use this information, please visit my site listed in my bio.