Romantic Dates That Leads To Sex: The Number 1 Secret For Success
Romantic date that leads nowhere are the most frustrating things in the world! A blown romantic date can mean anywhere between 3 and 10 hours wasted.
On the other hand, when you know how to dazzle a woman's mind with romance, not only will this lead to sex faster, she will put you in a category of men that she will never forget.
First: Stop buying her flowers and chocolates.
Lavish gifts and dinners are not true romantic dates -- that's butt kissing.
She does not know you.
Any lame attempt at trying to impress her will be just that.
Even if you have a lot of money, you will simply train her to want you only for your money.
This is not what you want.
Stop buying her gifts and trying to impress her.
Save that for when she's your girlfriend.
If you insist on buying her something, here's how to do it right: on the first night you meet her, ask her what her favorite flavor of ice cream is.
Buy some and let her know on the date that picked some up from the grocer's.
This let's her know that you're attentive, authentically sweet, and you don't plan to love her and leave her.
This is true romance on a date.
Romantic dates are not about buying flowers, your job is to LEAD her.
She wants to see where you might take her if you had the opportunity.
Seriously.
Nine out of ten guys mess this up so badly, that if you can lead a woman, pretty much anywhere, she will your chances of having sex with her will be much higher.
Lead with your voice: Tell her, "We're going to the park now.
" Don't ask, "Would you like to go to the park?" Lead with your body Walk with certainty, like you know where you are going.
You can even walk slightly ahead of her...
like a quarter step ahead.
When you have a date, lead her through an experience that not only allows you to have fun automatically, have it build in that you can lead her on an adventure automatically.
I used to have romantic dates with women on the top of my apartment building.
We'd have some wine and look over my town -- or watch the stars.
We would have to climb up a fire ladder to the first floor roof, and do the same for the second floor.
I would put her on my shoulders so that she could get up to the ladder.
Then I would climb up myself.
On the way back, I would climb down, and carry her down.
In these two instances, I get to physically escalate with her, but also I have proven to her that I can lead and protect her.
This isn't talk, it's proof.
Supposing that our star gazing was any fun at all, everything will be smooth from there into the bedroom.
If you looke at this example from the romantic date perspective, I was her prince charming, and I protected her on our adventure...
Leadership, it's the number one thing that girls look for when on a romantic date that guys are sorely lacking.
Add this to your dating bag of tricks, and you will see a big improvement in your success.
Last thing, don't mess up your leadership.
If you lead her into danger or pain, she will never trust you to lead again and you've blown it.
Here's an example: If you climbed a tree, and you try to pull her up, that can be quite fun for her.
But if you lead her up the tree and she falls, she will never trust you again.
On the other hand, when you know how to dazzle a woman's mind with romance, not only will this lead to sex faster, she will put you in a category of men that she will never forget.
First: Stop buying her flowers and chocolates.
Lavish gifts and dinners are not true romantic dates -- that's butt kissing.
She does not know you.
Any lame attempt at trying to impress her will be just that.
Even if you have a lot of money, you will simply train her to want you only for your money.
This is not what you want.
Stop buying her gifts and trying to impress her.
Save that for when she's your girlfriend.
If you insist on buying her something, here's how to do it right: on the first night you meet her, ask her what her favorite flavor of ice cream is.
Buy some and let her know on the date that picked some up from the grocer's.
This let's her know that you're attentive, authentically sweet, and you don't plan to love her and leave her.
This is true romance on a date.
Romantic dates are not about buying flowers, your job is to LEAD her.
She wants to see where you might take her if you had the opportunity.
Seriously.
Nine out of ten guys mess this up so badly, that if you can lead a woman, pretty much anywhere, she will your chances of having sex with her will be much higher.
Lead with your voice: Tell her, "We're going to the park now.
" Don't ask, "Would you like to go to the park?" Lead with your body Walk with certainty, like you know where you are going.
You can even walk slightly ahead of her...
like a quarter step ahead.
When you have a date, lead her through an experience that not only allows you to have fun automatically, have it build in that you can lead her on an adventure automatically.
I used to have romantic dates with women on the top of my apartment building.
We'd have some wine and look over my town -- or watch the stars.
We would have to climb up a fire ladder to the first floor roof, and do the same for the second floor.
I would put her on my shoulders so that she could get up to the ladder.
Then I would climb up myself.
On the way back, I would climb down, and carry her down.
In these two instances, I get to physically escalate with her, but also I have proven to her that I can lead and protect her.
This isn't talk, it's proof.
Supposing that our star gazing was any fun at all, everything will be smooth from there into the bedroom.
If you looke at this example from the romantic date perspective, I was her prince charming, and I protected her on our adventure...
Leadership, it's the number one thing that girls look for when on a romantic date that guys are sorely lacking.
Add this to your dating bag of tricks, and you will see a big improvement in your success.
Last thing, don't mess up your leadership.
If you lead her into danger or pain, she will never trust you to lead again and you've blown it.
Here's an example: If you climbed a tree, and you try to pull her up, that can be quite fun for her.
But if you lead her up the tree and she falls, she will never trust you again.