If you are aware of sexually transmitted diseases, condoms, and are on proper birth control then you don't need me to tell you again, but I will tell you what to expect your first time having intercourse so you will not be caught off guard.
First things first, are you ready? I was always told a good rule of thumb is "If you can talk to your parents about sex, then you are ready.
" This is not always the case, of course, but as a general rule it should be followed.
It is unrealistic to say wait to have sex until it is with someone you love, because chances are that this is the first time you have been in love, and therefore have nothing to compare this person to.
It is better to say, with someone who you feel safe with and care for.
Once you have found that person, you must talk about it with them.
Unexpected sex rarely turns out the way you imagined it to be, especially when it is with someone you care for.
If you have come to a mutual agreement, then make the occasion special with a romantic evening.
Ladies, before you start to have sex, it is best to remember that the wider your legs are spread, the less it will hurt.
It will hurt regardless, but this will make it easier for him to enter you.
You may feel a tear or just a bit of uncomfortableness, but what ever you feel remember to tell him when you have had too much.
Sex doesn't start to feel good until the third or fourth time, so remember that it is completely normal to feel pain.
Guys, it is a good idea to masturbate before having sex.
If you masturbate an hour or two before having sex, this will keep you from getting too excited too quickly.
The first time you have sex will feel strange and it is okay to tell your partner that you need to stop for a second, and always give her the same courtesy This is a small primer on the first time you have intercourse, just always remember to talk to your partner and be safe!
First things first, are you ready? I was always told a good rule of thumb is "If you can talk to your parents about sex, then you are ready.
" This is not always the case, of course, but as a general rule it should be followed.
It is unrealistic to say wait to have sex until it is with someone you love, because chances are that this is the first time you have been in love, and therefore have nothing to compare this person to.
It is better to say, with someone who you feel safe with and care for.
Once you have found that person, you must talk about it with them.
Unexpected sex rarely turns out the way you imagined it to be, especially when it is with someone you care for.
If you have come to a mutual agreement, then make the occasion special with a romantic evening.
Ladies, before you start to have sex, it is best to remember that the wider your legs are spread, the less it will hurt.
It will hurt regardless, but this will make it easier for him to enter you.
You may feel a tear or just a bit of uncomfortableness, but what ever you feel remember to tell him when you have had too much.
Sex doesn't start to feel good until the third or fourth time, so remember that it is completely normal to feel pain.
Guys, it is a good idea to masturbate before having sex.
If you masturbate an hour or two before having sex, this will keep you from getting too excited too quickly.
The first time you have sex will feel strange and it is okay to tell your partner that you need to stop for a second, and always give her the same courtesy This is a small primer on the first time you have intercourse, just always remember to talk to your partner and be safe!