The next time you go out for the evening to have a few drinks, do a little study. Watch the women in the room. Who do they gravitate to? Who do they avoid like the plague? You'll find out the guys that stand out in the crowd in attracting women have one major characteristic - they don't act like they need a woman. All the guys that are tripping over themselves to approach women are rejected, avoided, and ignored.
There are several reasons that women flock to guys who act like they don't give a rip.
1. The more a man wants a woman, the needier he looks and acts.
2. If a guy is desperate to be with a woman, the more a woman thinks "Why?" She wonders if there's something wrong with him.
3. A guy who doesn't 'need' their company is very appealing. She doesn't worry about getting groped by him in public, or if he's going to want sex just because she's talking with him.
A man who can create a persona of status, confidence, and aloofness will turn a woman's head most of the time. Notice that you only have to 'create a persona'.
You accomplish this by being clean, neat, and dressing a little better than most everyone else. For the most part that means no sweat shirts or t-shirts.
You look confident when you are relaxed, keep good eye contact and good posture. I know this sound like it's coming straight from your third grade teacher, but it really makes a difference.
Keeping you drinking level moderate says a lot about your control. The guy that drinks too much and then hits on women will almost always come up empty. Unless he hits up on a woman who's his equal in drinking.
As for being aloof, well, smile at women to acknowledge them, but don't try to start the conversation. Go back to whatever you were doing before they caught your eye. You'll notice that they'll come over to start a conversation with you.
Give these tips a try. You'll have a lot more success and have more fun, too.
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There are several reasons that women flock to guys who act like they don't give a rip.
1. The more a man wants a woman, the needier he looks and acts.
2. If a guy is desperate to be with a woman, the more a woman thinks "Why?" She wonders if there's something wrong with him.
3. A guy who doesn't 'need' their company is very appealing. She doesn't worry about getting groped by him in public, or if he's going to want sex just because she's talking with him.
A man who can create a persona of status, confidence, and aloofness will turn a woman's head most of the time. Notice that you only have to 'create a persona'.
You accomplish this by being clean, neat, and dressing a little better than most everyone else. For the most part that means no sweat shirts or t-shirts.
You look confident when you are relaxed, keep good eye contact and good posture. I know this sound like it's coming straight from your third grade teacher, but it really makes a difference.
Keeping you drinking level moderate says a lot about your control. The guy that drinks too much and then hits on women will almost always come up empty. Unless he hits up on a woman who's his equal in drinking.
As for being aloof, well, smile at women to acknowledge them, but don't try to start the conversation. Go back to whatever you were doing before they caught your eye. You'll notice that they'll come over to start a conversation with you.
Give these tips a try. You'll have a lot more success and have more fun, too.
Watch FREE hidden camera pickup videos and discover how to approach, meet and get dates with attractive women at the shopping mall, the park, even the street!
http://www.succeedatdating.com