- "Bar Mitzvah" translates as "son of the commandment". ("Bar" is "son" in Aramaic, the Jewish people's ancient spoken language. "Mitzvah" means "commandment" in Hebrew and Aramaic.) While "bar mitzvah" refers to the young man transitioning into manhood, the term is popularly understood as the ceremony. Gift-giving to celebrate this rite of passage is customary, particularly among American and Ashkenazi Jews.
- Guests should expect to bring gifts to the bar mitzvah reception, rather than the ceremony. Think of the ceremony as a religious event and the reception as a cultural one. Your gift may recognize the celebrant's entry into a more mature phase of life. Consider a gift suitable for someone starting high school or college, or more generic gifts, such as would be appropriate for any thirteenth birthday.
- Party Spot offers several creative ideas for bar mitzvah gifts. Since Hebrew word for life ("chai") also represents the number 18, it is customary to give money in increments of 18. While traditional or standard birthday gifts are welcome, you can think outside the box. Consider giving a donation to Jewish charity. Create a book of memorabilia specific to the young man by collecting items and photographs of him and his interests and binding them in a scrapbook. A carved box with items of interest also makes for a personal gift. A framed picture of someone he admires or who would be a good role model is also appropriate. Use these ideas as jumping-off points for your imagination, and don't hesitate to ask the celebrant's parents for gift ideas, and to check with other guests to see what they are giving.
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