No one says that people should never be jealous.
Jealousy is healthy because it can motivate you sometimes to do something better.
If you hear from your neighbor or friend about someone's successes, or in your family someone is doing better than you are, it can push you in a positive manner to try harder to do something better.
But if your jealousy is extreme and treats to ruin your life, you must search for professional help.
This cannot be stopped on your own.
People can be jealous for different reasons.
Jealousy is inevitable in every human relation, between friends, spouses, siblings, lovers, children and all others.
Those feelings can be really strong and unpleasant and can make you even hate someone who is not even aware of your existence.
How sad is that.
If people could stay focused on their lives and their goals, they would be rather pleased with their achievement, not with others.
But, exact moment, when something wrong goes in our lives, it is much easier to became jealous on someone else's.
And while being jealous and while envying, we don't think, not for a second, of how they must feel in their lives and what possible problems they might have.
The hardest thing in my opinion is jealousy between lovers and spouses.
The quality of this kind of relationship affects possible children in the future.
What is the problem here, is when people get in the relationship with someone and want to make it work at all costs.
If you settle for less because you love someone very much and you are aware that the love is not the same on his/her behalf, you are making a lot of space for your jealousy.
You will always be insecure in that relationship and will make problems to your lover or spouse even if he did nothing wrong.
That is just the way it goes.
If you are ready to be in a relationship with someone that, you deeply inside know, is not committed to your relationship a hundred percent, you should not be jealous because it is your choice to be there.
If you cannot stand it and it kills you slowly, get out of this relationship.
Do not expect someone to change just because you want him/her to.
Right amount of jealousy is healthy in relationship because it shows that your lover loves you and does not want to share you.
That could be nice if that does not include that he does not want to share you with your family, friends or any other human being.
That is when you need to start worrying.
Jealousy is healthy because it can motivate you sometimes to do something better.
If you hear from your neighbor or friend about someone's successes, or in your family someone is doing better than you are, it can push you in a positive manner to try harder to do something better.
But if your jealousy is extreme and treats to ruin your life, you must search for professional help.
This cannot be stopped on your own.
People can be jealous for different reasons.
Jealousy is inevitable in every human relation, between friends, spouses, siblings, lovers, children and all others.
Those feelings can be really strong and unpleasant and can make you even hate someone who is not even aware of your existence.
How sad is that.
If people could stay focused on their lives and their goals, they would be rather pleased with their achievement, not with others.
But, exact moment, when something wrong goes in our lives, it is much easier to became jealous on someone else's.
And while being jealous and while envying, we don't think, not for a second, of how they must feel in their lives and what possible problems they might have.
The hardest thing in my opinion is jealousy between lovers and spouses.
The quality of this kind of relationship affects possible children in the future.
What is the problem here, is when people get in the relationship with someone and want to make it work at all costs.
If you settle for less because you love someone very much and you are aware that the love is not the same on his/her behalf, you are making a lot of space for your jealousy.
You will always be insecure in that relationship and will make problems to your lover or spouse even if he did nothing wrong.
That is just the way it goes.
If you are ready to be in a relationship with someone that, you deeply inside know, is not committed to your relationship a hundred percent, you should not be jealous because it is your choice to be there.
If you cannot stand it and it kills you slowly, get out of this relationship.
Do not expect someone to change just because you want him/her to.
Right amount of jealousy is healthy in relationship because it shows that your lover loves you and does not want to share you.
That could be nice if that does not include that he does not want to share you with your family, friends or any other human being.
That is when you need to start worrying.