- 1). Create a checklist of symptoms and give this to parents of children who may be suffering from substance abuse problems. Include common physical signs such as bloodshot eyes, slurred speech, impaired motor coordination or walking, poor hygiene, nervousness and unexplained illnesses. In addition, suggest they look for behavioral changes, less-desirable friends and a decline in academic performance.
- 2). Use a non-judgmental tone when speaking to parents about substance abuse issues that may affect their children. Because a parent's first instinct might be to blame himself for not recognizing the warning signs, it is important to explain to that it is not his fault. Using inclusive "we" statements as opposed to "you" statements might make it easier for a parent to accept the situation. In addition, avoid making the child seem to be a bad person, and use terms that help the parent understand that his child is a victim as well.
- 3). Offer support and treatment options. Provide websites, pamphlets and telephone numbers of treatment options for both their children and the parent. Explain to parents that they can find support groups that will offer assistance in helping them cope with their new knowledge and in learning to manage their child's substance abuse problem. Explain to parents that addictive behaviors are not treatable with punishment and will likely need to be addressed by professionals.
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