Get Your Ex-girlfriend Back: Do Not Make The Disastrous Error That Most Men Make With Ex-girlfriends
Your girlfriend has broken up with you, you're hurting terribly, and you don't know what to do.
Every cell in your body is crying out for you to find a way to get her back, and maybe you don't have any idea where to start. Should you try to make her jealous? Should you try (again) to convince her of how valuable your relationship is, and how much you will miss her if you're not together? Should you try to get your mutual friends to convince her that she was wrong about the breakup and that you're a really great guy whom she should grab back before you find a much (hotter, smarter, richer, etc.) girlfriend?
Read very carefully here:
Don't do any of those things. In fact, don't do anything!
You will start winning her back by NOT doing one major thing.
This may hurt, but I'm not going to waltz around it or try to sugar coat it. You want the truth about getting your girlfriend back, don't you?
Here it is.
DO NOT CONTACT YOUR EX GIRLFRIEND AT ALL FOR AT LEAST THREE WEEKS.
There are no exceptions to this rule. You must not try to contact her in any way. There is a proven scientific basis for this.
Does the "no contact" rule scare you, maybe even terrify you? If so, you more than everyone else must pay especially close attention to this.
Why is it so crucial not to initiate any contact with your ex girlfriend?
It's because by following this "no contact" rule, you will immediately accomplish three things that are essential in getting her back.
1. It will keep you from acting insecure and needy around your ex girlfriend. Neediness and insecurity are attraction killers in any relationship.
2. It will scare her. She will wonder why you are not calling or texting her. Even more, she will begin to wonder if you have already moved on to another woman.
3. It will give you time to learn the steps that you SHOULD follow to get her back.
Face it - no matter what you do or how hard you try, if you are around your ex, you will show insecurity and neediness. It doesn't matter how hard you try not to show it. Your neediness and insecurity will come through, and that will work strongly against you in getting her back.
Even if you don't actually say you miss her and want her back, or that you're hurting inside, she will pick up on your feelings from your body language. That's not touchy-feely nonsense either - body language is powerful, and women are much better than men at noticing body language and reading it very accurately.
So - do not contact her at all for at least three weeks. Wait until you know precisely what your first move should be to get her back.
Every cell in your body is crying out for you to find a way to get her back, and maybe you don't have any idea where to start. Should you try to make her jealous? Should you try (again) to convince her of how valuable your relationship is, and how much you will miss her if you're not together? Should you try to get your mutual friends to convince her that she was wrong about the breakup and that you're a really great guy whom she should grab back before you find a much (hotter, smarter, richer, etc.) girlfriend?
Read very carefully here:
Don't do any of those things. In fact, don't do anything!
You will start winning her back by NOT doing one major thing.
This may hurt, but I'm not going to waltz around it or try to sugar coat it. You want the truth about getting your girlfriend back, don't you?
Here it is.
DO NOT CONTACT YOUR EX GIRLFRIEND AT ALL FOR AT LEAST THREE WEEKS.
There are no exceptions to this rule. You must not try to contact her in any way. There is a proven scientific basis for this.
Does the "no contact" rule scare you, maybe even terrify you? If so, you more than everyone else must pay especially close attention to this.
Why is it so crucial not to initiate any contact with your ex girlfriend?
It's because by following this "no contact" rule, you will immediately accomplish three things that are essential in getting her back.
1. It will keep you from acting insecure and needy around your ex girlfriend. Neediness and insecurity are attraction killers in any relationship.
2. It will scare her. She will wonder why you are not calling or texting her. Even more, she will begin to wonder if you have already moved on to another woman.
3. It will give you time to learn the steps that you SHOULD follow to get her back.
Face it - no matter what you do or how hard you try, if you are around your ex, you will show insecurity and neediness. It doesn't matter how hard you try not to show it. Your neediness and insecurity will come through, and that will work strongly against you in getting her back.
Even if you don't actually say you miss her and want her back, or that you're hurting inside, she will pick up on your feelings from your body language. That's not touchy-feely nonsense either - body language is powerful, and women are much better than men at noticing body language and reading it very accurately.
So - do not contact her at all for at least three weeks. Wait until you know precisely what your first move should be to get her back.