What should you say when talking dirty to your boyfriend? What does he really want to hear? For those who have perfected the art, it's not hard to talk dirty to their men, but for the larger majority of women dirty talk seems like a daunting task.
While it's untrue that dirty talk is about using overly explicit words, it is also true that you must be willing to engross yourself into thinking dirty if you're ever going to learn how it's done.
Unless you're willing to learn you will always have a hard time using dirty talk, whether in bed or in building sexual anticipation.
Most women, who have tried talking dirty to their men, end up being disappointed because they simply didn't know what to say.
While it's imperative that you choose the words correctly, it is also important that you say the words in the right manner because that's what makes all the difference.
Start with the words that you're comfortable with at first then get dirtier as you become more and more confident.
It's only a matter of time before you are really good at it, and do you know what this means to your sexual relationship? It means more excitement not to mention that your man will always be attracted to you.
So what do you say? Here are five lines you must say when talking dirty: I love your...
Make it all about him.
Men love to be praised in bed.
As a matter of fact, the more you compliment him in bed, the more turned on he becomes.
Let him know that you love his chest or his biceps when he is on top of you or before having sex.
There is nothing that gratifies men more than knowing they're sexually attractive, both physically and in bed as well.
I love the way...
If you're quiet in bed, most men will take the first initiative to ask if you like what they're doing to you.
If you want to please him in bed, you should never forget to tell him that you love the way he is making love to you.
Describe to him how you find the way he thrusts into you sexy.
This will make him work harder and make sure you're even more satisfied.
Some of the verbs you can use include "throb", "swell" or "pulse".
You don't have to feel obligated to use explicit words if you're not comfortable with it.
How does that feel...
? This is a very important dirty line that you must say when talking dirty to your man.
This is the line to use especially when you're on top or giving him a blowjob.
Not only does this line make you know whether you're doing a good job or not, it also makes sure he lets you in on some of his sexual desires and fantasies as well.
Before using this line, look at his facial expression and wait for the most appropriate time to use it.
Give me some more...
This is the line to use when you want to acknowledge that he is doing a really good job and that your loving it.
Use this line after you've had sex for about 20 minutes when he is becoming more and more engrossed into the act.
You can also complement this line with other lines like "harder!" or "don't stop!" to make him work hard at it.
It is needless to say that the harder he works, the more sensual the experience which means that both of you end up being satisfied.
How was it...
? This is the ultimate punch line when it comes to talking dirty! I call it the stock-taking line.
Always ask a man how the whole experience was for him.
It is also good to know that you satisfied your man as a woman.
If a man isn't satisfied he will most probably ask for a round two or tell you some of the areas you need to work on (although few men will tell you this) or he will find satisfaction somewhere else.
While it's untrue that dirty talk is about using overly explicit words, it is also true that you must be willing to engross yourself into thinking dirty if you're ever going to learn how it's done.
Unless you're willing to learn you will always have a hard time using dirty talk, whether in bed or in building sexual anticipation.
Most women, who have tried talking dirty to their men, end up being disappointed because they simply didn't know what to say.
While it's imperative that you choose the words correctly, it is also important that you say the words in the right manner because that's what makes all the difference.
Start with the words that you're comfortable with at first then get dirtier as you become more and more confident.
It's only a matter of time before you are really good at it, and do you know what this means to your sexual relationship? It means more excitement not to mention that your man will always be attracted to you.
So what do you say? Here are five lines you must say when talking dirty: I love your...
Make it all about him.
Men love to be praised in bed.
As a matter of fact, the more you compliment him in bed, the more turned on he becomes.
Let him know that you love his chest or his biceps when he is on top of you or before having sex.
There is nothing that gratifies men more than knowing they're sexually attractive, both physically and in bed as well.
I love the way...
If you're quiet in bed, most men will take the first initiative to ask if you like what they're doing to you.
If you want to please him in bed, you should never forget to tell him that you love the way he is making love to you.
Describe to him how you find the way he thrusts into you sexy.
This will make him work harder and make sure you're even more satisfied.
Some of the verbs you can use include "throb", "swell" or "pulse".
You don't have to feel obligated to use explicit words if you're not comfortable with it.
How does that feel...
? This is a very important dirty line that you must say when talking dirty to your man.
This is the line to use especially when you're on top or giving him a blowjob.
Not only does this line make you know whether you're doing a good job or not, it also makes sure he lets you in on some of his sexual desires and fantasies as well.
Before using this line, look at his facial expression and wait for the most appropriate time to use it.
Give me some more...
This is the line to use when you want to acknowledge that he is doing a really good job and that your loving it.
Use this line after you've had sex for about 20 minutes when he is becoming more and more engrossed into the act.
You can also complement this line with other lines like "harder!" or "don't stop!" to make him work hard at it.
It is needless to say that the harder he works, the more sensual the experience which means that both of you end up being satisfied.
How was it...
? This is the ultimate punch line when it comes to talking dirty! I call it the stock-taking line.
Always ask a man how the whole experience was for him.
It is also good to know that you satisfied your man as a woman.
If a man isn't satisfied he will most probably ask for a round two or tell you some of the areas you need to work on (although few men will tell you this) or he will find satisfaction somewhere else.