Every man alive has had a moment or two where he wishes he could have just held on a little bit longer.
You know what I'm talking about guys, that moment of no return where the woman in your life gets you so hot and bothered there is no turning back.
That moment when you explode with everything you've got.
But wait, what if you could have lasted just another two or three seconds, what if you could have lasted another ten minutes or so...
Do you think you're lady love could have had a lot more pleasure if you could have just held on for another few minutes? If you could have just stopped yourself from "finishing the deal" so quickly you could have saved her from wondering "Is that all?" Every man, of every color, size and age has had that one moment when they couldn't stop themselves but they really felt like they needed to.
I won't lie to you either, I've had this same thing happen to me once or twice.
My wife and I were in the middle of a seriously hot and heavy lovemaking session and within about forty seconds, I was panting after an explosive orgasm.
She made a few at me like I just shot her dog and literally asked me "Is that all you got?" I spent the next few weeks trying to learn my body's responses and triggers so that I could amaze her the next time we made love.
Not to mention, I wasn't getting any since that last episode so I had a lot of time "on my hands", so to speak.
Once you've tried to learn a new technique and you get something down pat, you'll be more than willing to try it out on the first female you can find.
The important thing to remember is, don't get too involved in trying to hold yourself off.
Remember that ladies just want to finish, they don't want to run a marathon every time they hop in bed with us.
Try stopping yourself right before you finish.
Do this while you're "practicing" on your own.
This takes a whole lot of self-control, but once you master this, you'll be able to "feel" when it's time to change things up a bit with your partner.
I typically recommend that you try this at least four or five times per session.
Give yourself time to realize how it feels right before you get to the end.
If you finish before you get the chance to practice stopping, it just means you need more practice.
Another method you can try is called "biting".
Try biting your lip right as you're getting really close.
Put the sensation of pain in your body so you can take the focus off of coming.
This should help you avoid finishing for a few moments and will buy you some time to "work some magic" between the sheets.
If biting yourself only makes you more excited though, try something less invigorating.
I try to picture someone who doesn't excite me.
If you can hold a visual image while you're inside your partner, this will help you out tremendously.
I used to literally visualize myself humping Roseanne Arnold while I was making love to my wife.
I could go all night with that visual in my head.
Once I saw that she was satisfied and was ready for me to finish, I would just switch the picture to someone else and be done in a second.
Usually I would picture someone like Pamela Anderson or something and I would be done in no time.
If you're not really visual, go out on the internet and do some "ugly homework".
Find some pictures that don't really appeal to your sexual desires.
Stare at the pictures and store them in your brain.
Hold on to them until you're at your peak of excitement and then just remember the image in your mind for a few seconds.
This can help you stave off ejaculation pretty easily.
Once you've mastered the art of "holding off".
You'll notice the frequency of lovemaking should increase.
Women love it when a guy can "control things".
I've even been told by my wife that she enjoys watching my face so much when we make love that she sometimes gives in to me just to see what faces I'm going to make.
I can't really argue since I'm getting some and she's happy giving it up.
So go out there and have a great time.
Add a little time and don't be afraid to tell your girl you learned something new.
I've found that women love the word "new" when it comes to the bedroom.
You know what I'm talking about guys, that moment of no return where the woman in your life gets you so hot and bothered there is no turning back.
That moment when you explode with everything you've got.
But wait, what if you could have lasted just another two or three seconds, what if you could have lasted another ten minutes or so...
Do you think you're lady love could have had a lot more pleasure if you could have just held on for another few minutes? If you could have just stopped yourself from "finishing the deal" so quickly you could have saved her from wondering "Is that all?" Every man, of every color, size and age has had that one moment when they couldn't stop themselves but they really felt like they needed to.
I won't lie to you either, I've had this same thing happen to me once or twice.
My wife and I were in the middle of a seriously hot and heavy lovemaking session and within about forty seconds, I was panting after an explosive orgasm.
She made a few at me like I just shot her dog and literally asked me "Is that all you got?" I spent the next few weeks trying to learn my body's responses and triggers so that I could amaze her the next time we made love.
Not to mention, I wasn't getting any since that last episode so I had a lot of time "on my hands", so to speak.
Once you've tried to learn a new technique and you get something down pat, you'll be more than willing to try it out on the first female you can find.
The important thing to remember is, don't get too involved in trying to hold yourself off.
Remember that ladies just want to finish, they don't want to run a marathon every time they hop in bed with us.
Try stopping yourself right before you finish.
Do this while you're "practicing" on your own.
This takes a whole lot of self-control, but once you master this, you'll be able to "feel" when it's time to change things up a bit with your partner.
I typically recommend that you try this at least four or five times per session.
Give yourself time to realize how it feels right before you get to the end.
If you finish before you get the chance to practice stopping, it just means you need more practice.
Another method you can try is called "biting".
Try biting your lip right as you're getting really close.
Put the sensation of pain in your body so you can take the focus off of coming.
This should help you avoid finishing for a few moments and will buy you some time to "work some magic" between the sheets.
If biting yourself only makes you more excited though, try something less invigorating.
I try to picture someone who doesn't excite me.
If you can hold a visual image while you're inside your partner, this will help you out tremendously.
I used to literally visualize myself humping Roseanne Arnold while I was making love to my wife.
I could go all night with that visual in my head.
Once I saw that she was satisfied and was ready for me to finish, I would just switch the picture to someone else and be done in a second.
Usually I would picture someone like Pamela Anderson or something and I would be done in no time.
If you're not really visual, go out on the internet and do some "ugly homework".
Find some pictures that don't really appeal to your sexual desires.
Stare at the pictures and store them in your brain.
Hold on to them until you're at your peak of excitement and then just remember the image in your mind for a few seconds.
This can help you stave off ejaculation pretty easily.
Once you've mastered the art of "holding off".
You'll notice the frequency of lovemaking should increase.
Women love it when a guy can "control things".
I've even been told by my wife that she enjoys watching my face so much when we make love that she sometimes gives in to me just to see what faces I'm going to make.
I can't really argue since I'm getting some and she's happy giving it up.
So go out there and have a great time.
Add a little time and don't be afraid to tell your girl you learned something new.
I've found that women love the word "new" when it comes to the bedroom.