Have you ever been completely frustrated when it comes to attracting the type of girl you like to you? I know I have.
I think we've all been in those situations where you admire a girl from afar, and wonder what its going to take to get her to fall in love with you.
(Or at the very least, want to make out with you or something cool like that.
=) I get emails all the time from guys asking me about how they can get their "One Particular Girl" that they like.
They want to know how they can MAKE her attracted to them.
Well, there's good news, and there's bad news...
Bad news first: You can't MAKE someone like you, or feel any attraction to you.
Why? Because its impossible to make anyone do anything.
They are their own person, with their own thoughts, feelings, ideas, beliefs, etc.
They have free will, and if you try and make them do something, chances are slim they will actually do what you want.
So trying to MAKE a girl feel blazing attraction for you is a difficult uphill battle.
But here's the GOOD news...
YOU CAN BE ATTRACTIVE TO THE GIRL YOU LIKE! The difference is that you can't MAKE someone do something emotionally - like love or hate something, etc..
You can, however, make yourself so attractive that they notice and can't help but be ATTRACTED to you! (See the difference?) When you're an attractive person, you radiate an aura that draws women towards you like moths to a flame.
Suddenly, instead of you chasing the girl, the girl is the one calling you up, text messaging you, asking you to go out with HER.
And you know what? Its usually more than ONE girl who does this.
Now, some people might think that in order to be more attractive to women, you have to focus on your looks.
Looks are a small part of being an attractive male, however.
There are two bigger ones: 1.
Self Confidence 2.
Your persona/attitude The more confident you are, the easier it is for you to do what needs to be done with women.
The more personality you have, the easier it is to gain attraction.
So if you really want to make a girl like you, be the type of guy girls can't help but like! Work on your confidence, so that when others are around you, they feel confident.
Develop your personality.
When others are around you, they'll be more at ease and have more fun.
By focusing on confidence and personality, you will eventually become the guy everyone else wants to hang out with.
I think we've all been in those situations where you admire a girl from afar, and wonder what its going to take to get her to fall in love with you.
(Or at the very least, want to make out with you or something cool like that.
=) I get emails all the time from guys asking me about how they can get their "One Particular Girl" that they like.
They want to know how they can MAKE her attracted to them.
Well, there's good news, and there's bad news...
Bad news first: You can't MAKE someone like you, or feel any attraction to you.
Why? Because its impossible to make anyone do anything.
They are their own person, with their own thoughts, feelings, ideas, beliefs, etc.
They have free will, and if you try and make them do something, chances are slim they will actually do what you want.
So trying to MAKE a girl feel blazing attraction for you is a difficult uphill battle.
But here's the GOOD news...
YOU CAN BE ATTRACTIVE TO THE GIRL YOU LIKE! The difference is that you can't MAKE someone do something emotionally - like love or hate something, etc..
You can, however, make yourself so attractive that they notice and can't help but be ATTRACTED to you! (See the difference?) When you're an attractive person, you radiate an aura that draws women towards you like moths to a flame.
Suddenly, instead of you chasing the girl, the girl is the one calling you up, text messaging you, asking you to go out with HER.
And you know what? Its usually more than ONE girl who does this.
Now, some people might think that in order to be more attractive to women, you have to focus on your looks.
Looks are a small part of being an attractive male, however.
There are two bigger ones: 1.
Self Confidence 2.
Your persona/attitude The more confident you are, the easier it is for you to do what needs to be done with women.
The more personality you have, the easier it is to gain attraction.
So if you really want to make a girl like you, be the type of guy girls can't help but like! Work on your confidence, so that when others are around you, they feel confident.
Develop your personality.
When others are around you, they'll be more at ease and have more fun.
By focusing on confidence and personality, you will eventually become the guy everyone else wants to hang out with.