Three Quick Ways to Get Back Your Ex Girlfriend
When your heart has been broken by a girl and you want to win her back, there is something very important to remember: attitude matters. If you want to know how to get back your ex girlfriend, you have to know how to have the right attitude. Below, you'll find three tips that will help you get the right attitude to impress her and win her back. These three tips will demonstrate a level of maturity that she will find irresistible.
Step 1: Be understanding, but not a doormat. The trick to being understanding is to open communication between both parties. Take the time to really listen to what your ex-girlfriend has to say. If you don't understand where she's coming from, don't get mad. Just tell her that you respect how she feels but you don't understand. This will encourage her to try to communicate with you so you can understand her. Just don't be a doormat, which leads to tip 2.
Step 2: Be confident. Girls respond well to confidence. It goes back to the primal need to have a man able to protect her and go out and kill the biggest mammal around for food. If a man has confidence, he's demonstrating the trait of a provider so she feels secure and protected. It may seem cliché to say be confident, but clichés become so overdone because they express a truth in a way that cannot be expressed any better. Let her know that you are the way you are, and you are happy with the way you are, even though you still respect her opinions and you want things to work out between you both. Let her know that you are willing to work on any problems you may to better the relationship, but only if she is willing to work with you or make changes of her own.
Step 3: Finally, be supportive. If she wants to go out and date other people, then let her. She'll remember how you did not judge her, and how great you were to be ok with her going out. This is especially good if her date turns out horrible and she turns and talks to you. By being supportive, you are giving her permission to re-establish a friendship, which can become something much more. If she feels comfortable with you as a friend, she will be more willing to re-establish the relationship.
These three tips will help you develop the right attitude to win her back. By being understanding, confident, and supportive, she'll see that you can handle the situation and are acting very mature. This will again resonate with her in a very primal way. Demonstrate to her that you are a mature provider. Women will respond to a man who can care for her.
Even the modern, independent woman will appreciate a man who can be just as independent and mature as her. Either way, she will respond well to these traits. Just don't give up hope. Sometimes getting a relationship back together takes a lot of work.
Step 1: Be understanding, but not a doormat. The trick to being understanding is to open communication between both parties. Take the time to really listen to what your ex-girlfriend has to say. If you don't understand where she's coming from, don't get mad. Just tell her that you respect how she feels but you don't understand. This will encourage her to try to communicate with you so you can understand her. Just don't be a doormat, which leads to tip 2.
Step 2: Be confident. Girls respond well to confidence. It goes back to the primal need to have a man able to protect her and go out and kill the biggest mammal around for food. If a man has confidence, he's demonstrating the trait of a provider so she feels secure and protected. It may seem cliché to say be confident, but clichés become so overdone because they express a truth in a way that cannot be expressed any better. Let her know that you are the way you are, and you are happy with the way you are, even though you still respect her opinions and you want things to work out between you both. Let her know that you are willing to work on any problems you may to better the relationship, but only if she is willing to work with you or make changes of her own.
Step 3: Finally, be supportive. If she wants to go out and date other people, then let her. She'll remember how you did not judge her, and how great you were to be ok with her going out. This is especially good if her date turns out horrible and she turns and talks to you. By being supportive, you are giving her permission to re-establish a friendship, which can become something much more. If she feels comfortable with you as a friend, she will be more willing to re-establish the relationship.
These three tips will help you develop the right attitude to win her back. By being understanding, confident, and supportive, she'll see that you can handle the situation and are acting very mature. This will again resonate with her in a very primal way. Demonstrate to her that you are a mature provider. Women will respond to a man who can care for her.
Even the modern, independent woman will appreciate a man who can be just as independent and mature as her. Either way, she will respond well to these traits. Just don't give up hope. Sometimes getting a relationship back together takes a lot of work.