Is your ex constantly keeping in touch with you months after your break up? Did he say that he is inviting you for dinner as friends? Do you feel that your ex boyfriend wants to be friends with you? If your answer is yes to all these questions, you may think that he's up to something yet you don't know what it is.
You may get puzzled.
You try to be like Sherlock Holmes and try to put the pieces together so you'll get your answer.
You ask him what is the meaning of all the things he has been doing yet he only says that he just wants to be pals with you.
However, you think his reason isn't enough.
So what now? 1.
Your ex wants to keep his options open.
He has been into the dating scene too long yet he hasn't found a person who could replace you.
He is thinking of giving up on meeting new people.
He suddenly contacts you and tell you that he wishes that everything's OK with you and hopes that you could still be pals.
To be honest, he is trying to keep his options open.
He wants to make sure that he still has you when all else fail.
Be cautious and guard your heart because he may end up hurting you again.
2.
He wants to be updated.
He constantly wants to know if you are already dating some other guy.
He wants to be aware that a guy has been constantly asking you out.
He wants to distinguish whether you have a boyfriend or not.
In short, he is a little jealous of the fact that you have moved on and couldn't care less about him.
It's completely unfair because he being selfish.
It's like he wants to control your life.
Watch out.
He may be doing things behind your back.
He may scaring your new guy with some of his tactics.
3.
He doesn't want any trouble.
He does that because he wants to make life peaceful.
He doesn't want any trouble.
Come to think of it, both of you may still be interacting with the same people.
You work in the same office.
You spend or hang out in a common place.
He sees that being buddies is the best option to stir away from any hurtful feeling.
Also, he doesn't want that your circle of friends would choose sides.
He wants everything to be neutral or say, back to the way everything used to be before both of you hooked up.
4.
He stills wants you.
He called you up yet you weren't home.
He left a message saying that he wants to invite you for coffee or dinner.
It's his way of wanting to get back with you.
Of course, things may not have turned out great when both of you broke up.
The only possible way for him to get his way back to you is to be your pal.
You will also notice that he will be there to help you out when you need to get things out of your apartment.
He will even volunteer to accompany you in doing your laundry.
You may get puzzled.
You try to be like Sherlock Holmes and try to put the pieces together so you'll get your answer.
You ask him what is the meaning of all the things he has been doing yet he only says that he just wants to be pals with you.
However, you think his reason isn't enough.
So what now? 1.
Your ex wants to keep his options open.
He has been into the dating scene too long yet he hasn't found a person who could replace you.
He is thinking of giving up on meeting new people.
He suddenly contacts you and tell you that he wishes that everything's OK with you and hopes that you could still be pals.
To be honest, he is trying to keep his options open.
He wants to make sure that he still has you when all else fail.
Be cautious and guard your heart because he may end up hurting you again.
2.
He wants to be updated.
He constantly wants to know if you are already dating some other guy.
He wants to be aware that a guy has been constantly asking you out.
He wants to distinguish whether you have a boyfriend or not.
In short, he is a little jealous of the fact that you have moved on and couldn't care less about him.
It's completely unfair because he being selfish.
It's like he wants to control your life.
Watch out.
He may be doing things behind your back.
He may scaring your new guy with some of his tactics.
3.
He doesn't want any trouble.
He does that because he wants to make life peaceful.
He doesn't want any trouble.
Come to think of it, both of you may still be interacting with the same people.
You work in the same office.
You spend or hang out in a common place.
He sees that being buddies is the best option to stir away from any hurtful feeling.
Also, he doesn't want that your circle of friends would choose sides.
He wants everything to be neutral or say, back to the way everything used to be before both of you hooked up.
4.
He stills wants you.
He called you up yet you weren't home.
He left a message saying that he wants to invite you for coffee or dinner.
It's his way of wanting to get back with you.
Of course, things may not have turned out great when both of you broke up.
The only possible way for him to get his way back to you is to be your pal.
You will also notice that he will be there to help you out when you need to get things out of your apartment.
He will even volunteer to accompany you in doing your laundry.