It happens to the best of us from time to time. You're in love with one of your female friends. The thing is that she's not attracted to you and considers you only as a "friend." That's got to hurt! What can you do to turn your friend into a girlfriend? The first thing to remember is that I know you can do this. It could be hard to do it, but yes, you can do it! I'm sure, you've heard of stories about how one of your buddies hooked up with some girl he's known for a long time as a friend. Here are some tips that can help you:
Change into a New Man
Your friend is not interested in you since she is used to you being this type of person, for better or worse. If you want her to be more than just a friend, you need to change into a different man. You must become a new man. Should you show her a new side of you that she has never known before, she will see some new light in you and there's a chance that she can start to feel attracted to you. Start by wearing new clothes or act differently if you are with her.
Take Her to a New Location
Your next thing you can do is to have a get together with her. Don't even think of this as a "date" but you need to impress her. Ask her to meet you somewhere you've never been together with her before, take her there for lunch. This can be your chance to prove to her you're a new man.
If you eat fast food all the time, ask her to meet you in a restaurant with a more impressive atmosphere. Avoid chain stores like Coffee Bean. These places usually are too bland and wouldn't give her the idea you wanted. Your ultimate goal is to show her a fun and trendy place that's out of the way.
Just Be Direct with Her
Casually chat with her and have fun once you meet her. Although after a bit, be honest with her and tell her you think she's gorgeous and attractive. Tell her you've been thinking that you'd like her to be more than just a "friend." Then just asked her out on a date but don't make a big deal out of it. This may not seem like a huge commitment and it is more likely she'll respond to you positively.
These are the steps to change your "girl friend" into a girlfriend. There is a chance that she'll say "no" so you should be careful about this. If you asked her out and she turn you down, things can be awkward and you may lose your friendship with her. Be sure to know the risk that you're taking.
Change into a New Man
Your friend is not interested in you since she is used to you being this type of person, for better or worse. If you want her to be more than just a friend, you need to change into a different man. You must become a new man. Should you show her a new side of you that she has never known before, she will see some new light in you and there's a chance that she can start to feel attracted to you. Start by wearing new clothes or act differently if you are with her.
Take Her to a New Location
Your next thing you can do is to have a get together with her. Don't even think of this as a "date" but you need to impress her. Ask her to meet you somewhere you've never been together with her before, take her there for lunch. This can be your chance to prove to her you're a new man.
If you eat fast food all the time, ask her to meet you in a restaurant with a more impressive atmosphere. Avoid chain stores like Coffee Bean. These places usually are too bland and wouldn't give her the idea you wanted. Your ultimate goal is to show her a fun and trendy place that's out of the way.
Just Be Direct with Her
Casually chat with her and have fun once you meet her. Although after a bit, be honest with her and tell her you think she's gorgeous and attractive. Tell her you've been thinking that you'd like her to be more than just a "friend." Then just asked her out on a date but don't make a big deal out of it. This may not seem like a huge commitment and it is more likely she'll respond to you positively.
These are the steps to change your "girl friend" into a girlfriend. There is a chance that she'll say "no" so you should be careful about this. If you asked her out and she turn you down, things can be awkward and you may lose your friendship with her. Be sure to know the risk that you're taking.