Has your boyfriend, husband or significant other been acting strangely lately? Have his behaviors towards you changed? Are you worried that he doesn't seem as interested in you and that he could be getting a little on the side? It's not uncommon for men to cheat, however unfortunate that fact is.
If you keep your eyes open, however, you can catch him and end the relationship before you get even more hurt.
One way to tell if he's cheating on you is if his behavior has changed entirely from when the two of you first met.
When you began dating, he took you out to dinner, bought you flowers and complimented you regularly.
He spent time with you and money on you.
He paid attention to you and called regularly.
Now he doesn't.
It's almost like you've hit a brick wall and he's just bored.
If this is the case, whether he's cheating or not, it sounds like there's a big problem in your relationship that you need to address.
You should also pay attention to his whereabouts.
Has his work schedule suddenly varied heavily from what it used to be? He could be catching up with another woman before or after work.
Does he answer his phone calls, and is he honest with you about where he is and what he's doing? If he's trying to hide something, hiding himself is probably a good way to do it.
Another warning sign is when he decides to turn the argument around on you if you get too inquisitive about who he's been spending time with.
Does he yell at you and tell you you're being too suspicious? Does he pretend to be offended or accuse you of possibly cheating on him, instead? These are dead giveaways that he may be cheating.
Does he have an excuse for every little thing you ask him about? A lot of guys who lie or cheat are ready with an excuse for every possible scenario.
An excess of unwarranted detail is a good sign of a liar.
If things don't sound believable, it's probably because they aren't.
Has he ever cheated on you before? Has he admitted to cheating on other girlfriends? If he has, he's likely to be a repeat offender.
This is reason enough alone to leave him before things get any worse.
Leave with your pride intact and let him fend for himself.
You deserve better.
If you keep your eyes open, however, you can catch him and end the relationship before you get even more hurt.
One way to tell if he's cheating on you is if his behavior has changed entirely from when the two of you first met.
When you began dating, he took you out to dinner, bought you flowers and complimented you regularly.
He spent time with you and money on you.
He paid attention to you and called regularly.
Now he doesn't.
It's almost like you've hit a brick wall and he's just bored.
If this is the case, whether he's cheating or not, it sounds like there's a big problem in your relationship that you need to address.
You should also pay attention to his whereabouts.
Has his work schedule suddenly varied heavily from what it used to be? He could be catching up with another woman before or after work.
Does he answer his phone calls, and is he honest with you about where he is and what he's doing? If he's trying to hide something, hiding himself is probably a good way to do it.
Another warning sign is when he decides to turn the argument around on you if you get too inquisitive about who he's been spending time with.
Does he yell at you and tell you you're being too suspicious? Does he pretend to be offended or accuse you of possibly cheating on him, instead? These are dead giveaways that he may be cheating.
Does he have an excuse for every little thing you ask him about? A lot of guys who lie or cheat are ready with an excuse for every possible scenario.
An excess of unwarranted detail is a good sign of a liar.
If things don't sound believable, it's probably because they aren't.
Has he ever cheated on you before? Has he admitted to cheating on other girlfriends? If he has, he's likely to be a repeat offender.
This is reason enough alone to leave him before things get any worse.
Leave with your pride intact and let him fend for himself.
You deserve better.