After a heart wrenching breakup with your ex, you know that you still have feelings for him and you want him back. But the thing is, you don't want to go begging for her to come back and everything else you've tried seems to fail you each time.

What do you do? Well, try using reverse psychology and learn how to win your ex back.

First, make her wonder. Cut off all contact and communication with your ex. This means no cute texts, no calls, and no nothing. Think about it as giving yourself time and space to heal instead of avoiding her.

This might seem counter intuitive to your goals but it will make your ex wonder what's up when you suddenly stop bombarding her with calls and messages. Suddenly, you're not so predictable after all.

Next, let yourself have fun! That's right; go out for drinks, discos, dances, dinners and whatever else that makes you happy. When word gets around that you're not being soppy and depressed at home, your ex would be curious as to know how you're doing. This can help you win your ex back because she would be the first to call you up.

With all your outings and avoidance, your ex would have you on her mind as she would always be wondering about how you are coping. This can help you win your ex back because she would see you as desirable rather than annoying and pesky.

You would also be showing her that you don't need a woman in your life as you are an independent man who can take care of himself.