Get Men to Chase You – Tips to Becoming the Pursued
Trick #1 – Don't make it easy.
A guy can't pursue you if you don't give him a chance. If you are always around and always available, there's no need to go after you. If you concentrate on living your own life as an independent person, and fill your time with lots of other people, then he might start seeing you as a prize worth having.
Make sure to give guy lots of space. Spend plenty of time on your own or with other people. You should make him want to work to spend time with you, instead of putting yourself in his path.
Trick #2 – But don't make it impossible.
If you have a full life outside of men that you are interested in, and surround yourself with plenty of other people, your company will be seen as valuable. However, if you are too aloof, or you act as if you don't like a man, then you won't get men to chase you, because they might move on to greener pastures.
Let him see that you have fun when he's around. Listen to him, and respond with interest. If you like something about him, you can mention it in a carefree way. He needs to know that he has a chance, but that he will need to work for it.
Trick #3 – Make the prize worth the effort.
Once you've got his interest, don't stop there. When you do spend time with him, make an effort to have fun. Keep trying new things. Try to go on dates where you are both physically active. Explore new trails or unfamiliar parts of town. You won't keep his interest if your time together is too predictable.
Some women throw themselves into the project of trying to capture a man's heart whenever they are interested. This is usually a recipe for disaster. You can remember these three secrets if you want to get men to chase you, instead of the other way around.