When people think of the concept of chastity they usually think of medieval times, when maidens were locked up to protect their virginity until marriage. But in reality, chastity is a very modern concept - only these days it's the man who is usually locked up, while the female partner retains her sexual freedom.
So many people really have no clue as to the real concept of this lifestyle. That is why I felt the need to write the male chastity book [http://www.malechastitylifestyle.com/male-chastity-guide/] called Beautiful Enslavement - to give people a practical and factual guide for incorporating male chastity into their lives.
This practice started back in the Victorian era and continues today. In fact, thanks to the Internet, it has become one of the most popular lifestyle choices for modern couples. The reason is simple - women are more mature and more capable of controlling themselves in the context of a relationship.
Men, on the other hand, lack self-control and if left to their own devices, will allow their penis to make them take actions that can destroy their marriages. The most common offense a married man will take is masturbation. In fact, most men masturbate at least a once a day - and many do so three or four times a day - and lie to their wives about it.
This means their sexual energy, which should be dedicated to their wives, is instead wasted on their own selfish action. That's when romance starts going out of the relationship, and he becomes selfish in bed or ignores his wife's sexual needs entirely.
Male chastity fixes this problem and brings romance back into the relationship. This happens because the wife purchases a male chastity cage or tube that prevents him from being able to get an erection or ejaculate.
Meanwhile, he is told that he has to please his wife both in and out of the bedroom in order for her to be willing to unlock him. Because men are driven by their need to ejaculate, this means he will do anything to earn his temporary release.
The most common way for him to earn this release is to learn how to please his wife sexually on a regular basis - without using his penis. Imagine having your husband ready willing and able to perform hours or oral sex on you - and expect nothing in return! That's what will happen with male chastity.
Of course, he will also be expected to perform more chores around the house, take you out on romantic dates and make nights out with the boys a thing of the past. All of which he will gladly agree to - in fact, he may beg you to let him do the dishes just so he can please you.
In general, the less you allow him to orgasm the better he will become as a husband. But, you'll have to start out slow. Most couples begin with denying him release for a few days at a time. Eventually this is built up to a week at a time.
The goal of the training is to get him to the point where he climaxes a dozen times or less a year. My partner, for example, gets roughly nine orgasms a year. He is locked up for roughly six weeks at a time.
This is not completely selfish. While the male partner will get to orgasm less, the orgasms he does have will be much more intense and make him feel much closer to you. Plus, he will be proud that he is finally behaving like a loving man and not like a selfish little boy. Deep down, he knows it's wrong for him to masturbate while he's married to you, so he will feel better about himself once you have helped stopped his immature little habit.
The result is a happier marriage with more intimacy and mutual respect. This is why I recommend male chastity as the lifestyle for any couple that is serious about preserving their marriage. I also recommend reading the male chastity ebook, Beautiful Enslavement if you are seriously considering the lifestyle. There is no more complete resource to guide you on your journey.
So many people really have no clue as to the real concept of this lifestyle. That is why I felt the need to write the male chastity book [http://www.malechastitylifestyle.com/male-chastity-guide/] called Beautiful Enslavement - to give people a practical and factual guide for incorporating male chastity into their lives.
This practice started back in the Victorian era and continues today. In fact, thanks to the Internet, it has become one of the most popular lifestyle choices for modern couples. The reason is simple - women are more mature and more capable of controlling themselves in the context of a relationship.
Men, on the other hand, lack self-control and if left to their own devices, will allow their penis to make them take actions that can destroy their marriages. The most common offense a married man will take is masturbation. In fact, most men masturbate at least a once a day - and many do so three or four times a day - and lie to their wives about it.
This means their sexual energy, which should be dedicated to their wives, is instead wasted on their own selfish action. That's when romance starts going out of the relationship, and he becomes selfish in bed or ignores his wife's sexual needs entirely.
Male chastity fixes this problem and brings romance back into the relationship. This happens because the wife purchases a male chastity cage or tube that prevents him from being able to get an erection or ejaculate.
Meanwhile, he is told that he has to please his wife both in and out of the bedroom in order for her to be willing to unlock him. Because men are driven by their need to ejaculate, this means he will do anything to earn his temporary release.
The most common way for him to earn this release is to learn how to please his wife sexually on a regular basis - without using his penis. Imagine having your husband ready willing and able to perform hours or oral sex on you - and expect nothing in return! That's what will happen with male chastity.
Of course, he will also be expected to perform more chores around the house, take you out on romantic dates and make nights out with the boys a thing of the past. All of which he will gladly agree to - in fact, he may beg you to let him do the dishes just so he can please you.
In general, the less you allow him to orgasm the better he will become as a husband. But, you'll have to start out slow. Most couples begin with denying him release for a few days at a time. Eventually this is built up to a week at a time.
The goal of the training is to get him to the point where he climaxes a dozen times or less a year. My partner, for example, gets roughly nine orgasms a year. He is locked up for roughly six weeks at a time.
This is not completely selfish. While the male partner will get to orgasm less, the orgasms he does have will be much more intense and make him feel much closer to you. Plus, he will be proud that he is finally behaving like a loving man and not like a selfish little boy. Deep down, he knows it's wrong for him to masturbate while he's married to you, so he will feel better about himself once you have helped stopped his immature little habit.
The result is a happier marriage with more intimacy and mutual respect. This is why I recommend male chastity as the lifestyle for any couple that is serious about preserving their marriage. I also recommend reading the male chastity ebook, Beautiful Enslavement if you are seriously considering the lifestyle. There is no more complete resource to guide you on your journey.