If you were not inclined to a break-up, break-up may hurt you.
Your entire life is affected by a breakup; everything and every place seems to conjure up memories of your ex.
You will even have to evaluate your friendships to see if they are worth the emotions caused by seeing them.
One of the hardest things when it comes to a rest and move on is how friends and family react.
You may grow weary of your family discussing your ex, if they also loved him.
When you are dealing with a break up, try not to focus too much on the past relationship.
It is common that your family keeps talking about your ex in your presence for the practical difficulties they may encounter in regard to this.
  Tell them in no uncertain terms that it is over.
Their love and desire for your happiness will make them appreciate your decision, with passage of time.
Your friends may actually have a hard time letting go.
It can be a bit easier if you don't have any friends in common.
If you share the same circle of friends, your breakup can be strange for your friends.
It will be even more difficult to deal with a break when your ex wants to be with them.
You can even collide when around the same friends.
A breakup with your mate does not mean you should have to breakup with your friends also.
  Maintaining certain friendships may be difficult after you break up.
As difficult as it may seem,when you choose to separate and end a relationship,you may make things easier to end some of your mutual friendships as well.
Dealing with a break up is easier if you and your ex are open with mutual friends.
Simply keep close to your best friends and let your ex lover do likewise.
Though doing this can be painful it will make things easier on everyone involved.
If you're in the midst of a break up, that's important.