Are you in the habit of whispering sweet little secrets to your lover in the bedroom? You know, the dirty, naughty little things you say that describe what you want and how you're going to get it.
Dirty talk works.
It excites us and inspires us.
You know it works in the bedroom but if you want to take it to the limit try using dirty talk outside of the bedroom.
This 'foreplay' can add real excitement to any situation.
Imagine that you whisper some of those naughty little secrets to your lover as you are in a public elevator full of people.
He will be surprised and have his mind on one thing.
Part of the excitement is in the fact that you are in a situation that prevents following through.
This means the goodies will have to wait.
But the excitement can build which means you will be in for a wonderful time later.
When you are together in public places whisper to him what it is that you are looking forward to.
Tell him how hot he is.
Call your lover when he is someplace that is seemingly not fit for seductive or dirty talk.
Let him know what you love about his lovemaking style and what you are looking forward to.
Then expect some fun when you finally see him! If you call and he is not available then simply leave a detailed voicemail.
He will certainly call you back as soon as possible! Some females are shy about using dirty talk.
But there are ways for even the shyest among us to use this communication technique.
Put your thoughts on paper.
You can both purchase ready-made cards and add your own little line of dirty talk or you can create your masterpiece from scratch.
You can leave your notes and letters in spots that you know your lover will find.
Consider sticking a great dirty talk note in his shirt pocket before he dresses or put it in his briefcase.
Another way to communicate your naughty messages is via text or email.
The more you become accustomed to using dirty talk the better you will be at coming up with witty comments that will excite your partner.
You will also become more open about using dirty talk with your lover.
Don't limit the fun to the bedroom.
Be a little naughty at 'inappropriate' times and places.
Let your dirty talk begin the work up that builds to an explosive climax.
This tactic can add fun and spice to your relationship.