How often have you admired an attractive, well-heeled and self-assured woman from afar? You probably had second thoughts about even approaching her, because you decided she was "not In your league.
" But afterwards, you probably felt bad about not working up the courage to at least approach her.
Follow these steps and you will be well on your way to bucking up your courage: 1.
The first step to build up your confidence in talking to women is to strengthen your communication skills.
Do this by familiarizing yourself with the things women are interested in: fashion trends, celebrities, society and community news, television and the latest movies and book releases.
Being acquainted with such topics will help to give you the edge in acquiring the necessary confidence to walk up to any woman who catches your eye and start up a conversation with her.
The Internet makes this easy, and most of the information you need is available online.
Make a habit of visiting a good celebrity and entertainment news and gossip site daily.
The best sites will have a news feed of the day's top stories.
2.
"Hey baby, what's your sign?" may be a cliché, but it is probably a cliché that has come about for a reason.
A lot of women like to discuss astrology, even if they don't fully believe in it.
3.
Visualize success.
Get in a relaxed position, even reclining or in your favorite easy chair, close your eyes, relax for a few minutes, and then in your minds eye "C" yourself as approaching an attractive woman.
See yourself as being relaxed and self confident.
Think about a few things that you might say to her.
Visualize a various possible responses and how you will handle them period this can do much for your self-confidence.
3.
Brush up on the sexual side of your personality.
To increase your self-confidence as a lover, you might want to read a few books on the sexual side of relationships.
There are a lot of resources available on how to please and satisfy a woman sexually.
You can even subscribe to a woman's magazine.
These occasionally feature articles in which women talk about their sex life and preferences, their likes and dislikes.
You will also learn about the other things that women are interested in.
By becoming familiar with such issues, you can avoid falling into the trap that so many other men have fallen into.
" But afterwards, you probably felt bad about not working up the courage to at least approach her.
Follow these steps and you will be well on your way to bucking up your courage: 1.
The first step to build up your confidence in talking to women is to strengthen your communication skills.
Do this by familiarizing yourself with the things women are interested in: fashion trends, celebrities, society and community news, television and the latest movies and book releases.
Being acquainted with such topics will help to give you the edge in acquiring the necessary confidence to walk up to any woman who catches your eye and start up a conversation with her.
The Internet makes this easy, and most of the information you need is available online.
Make a habit of visiting a good celebrity and entertainment news and gossip site daily.
The best sites will have a news feed of the day's top stories.
2.
"Hey baby, what's your sign?" may be a cliché, but it is probably a cliché that has come about for a reason.
A lot of women like to discuss astrology, even if they don't fully believe in it.
3.
Visualize success.
Get in a relaxed position, even reclining or in your favorite easy chair, close your eyes, relax for a few minutes, and then in your minds eye "C" yourself as approaching an attractive woman.
See yourself as being relaxed and self confident.
Think about a few things that you might say to her.
Visualize a various possible responses and how you will handle them period this can do much for your self-confidence.
3.
Brush up on the sexual side of your personality.
To increase your self-confidence as a lover, you might want to read a few books on the sexual side of relationships.
There are a lot of resources available on how to please and satisfy a woman sexually.
You can even subscribe to a woman's magazine.
These occasionally feature articles in which women talk about their sex life and preferences, their likes and dislikes.
You will also learn about the other things that women are interested in.
By becoming familiar with such issues, you can avoid falling into the trap that so many other men have fallen into.