Understanding Men Is To Know What Men Really Want in a Woman

We have all heard about the book claiming Men are from Mars and Woman are from Venus, and we are very different. Who is harder to understand though? Men will tell us that they get married to spend a lifetime trying to "figure out" their woman. I would suggest that it really is the other way around and to completely understand men, every woman would give anything for that kind of practical knowledge. Ladies, it is now easier than ever to understand men, their hearts, how they think and why they act the way they do. Harness this knowledge and men will be tripping over themselves to please you, date you and ask you for the privilege of marrying you.

Here are a few areas that we can focus on immediately to get some instant results in our relationships and start to know men on a deeper level:

• First of all men really are quite sensitive--sometimes even more sensitive than us woman. Recovery from emotional trauma for a man is very difficult and men will protect themselves and resist releasing their emotions because they might not be able to control them. Lacking control equates to weakness for a man--keep this in mind when you are wanting your man to just let his feelings out.

• Any fight for a man means there is a winner and one completely defeated. Emotionally charged conflicts are the most threatening of all types of "fighting" and are their worst fears to encounter in a relationship. Men will cope with such conflicts in a relationship by simply dismissing the discussion with silence--they will "turn off" in order to maintain control of their true feelings and cool down before saying or doing something regretful in the heat of the moment.

• Most men across the globe do get married. It is only natural that the majority of all men are actively looking for their life partner to get married. Sharing their life with an intimate companion far outweighs the loneliness that will be inevitable with the single bachelor life. Men are visual beings and appreciate female beauty but men are always searching for a woman they can completely trust.

Starting with these three points, I believe you can attract the man of your dreams, Better Understand Men and of course if you have already got the man of your dreams you will be able to keep your relationship "hot". I know this information will serve you and your relationships for the rest of your lives together. Have fun, Build Intimacy and Romance and enjoy the love you have for each other in your relationship.