- 1). Ask your date to order first out of courtesy if the waiter looks to you first. If he insists on relinquishing the honor to you, do not argue. A gentle "Are you sure?" or "I insist" should suffice as polite protest.
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Do not order lobster if your date recommends the soup.lobster image by Natalya Korolevskaya from Fotolia.com
Ask your date for recommendations. The question may imply that you are unfamiliar with the menu, but actually gives you an idea about your date's taste and price range if she is hosting and footing the bill. If your date recommends soup or moderate fare, do not order lobster. - 3). Listen to the server and give him your full attention when he addresses you.
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Order the appetizer together.Appetizer Closeup image by William Berry from Fotolia.com
Order the drinks and appetizer if so desired. In the case of appetizers, it is appropriate to order for your date. Come to a consensus before the server arrives. If both of you desire none, order the main course. - 5). Do not talk over your date or contradict her choice when she orders. Give unsolicited recommendations prior to the server's visit. This shows your date that you respect her.
- 6). Order a moderately priced item if you order first, especially if the other party is treating. If you initiated the date, do not order something more extravagant than you are prepared to pay for in addition to a similar dish for your date. If ordering second, take cues from what the paying party orders. Do not order something that costs significantly more.
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