Are you in the midst of recovering from infidelity? Infidelity is on of the hardest things every to recover from. When we are working on healing from an affair, we have to really focus ourselves to the job of healing by getting educated through seminars, books, counseling and support groups. We can't sweep this affair under a rug and just pretend it never happened. There is no pill that will make our pain go away so we have to grieve and we have to get angry but then we must learn to forgive, to search for understanding and then accept that this affair did happen. In doing so we will find a new life, one that is even better than the one we had before the affair.

People wonder if they really can have a better marriage after the affair. Yes, you can if you both work very hard at healing. Recovering from infidelity is not easy on either spouse so both must work hard toward the goal of healing. You are probably very angry and in a lot of pain and maybe right now you can't even imagine forgiving. Right now, I want you to focus on just getting through one day at a time.

You should reach out and find a support system when you're recovering from infidelity. Infidelity isn't something we should ever go through alone. You need to reach out to others that are going through the same thing you are. You can try local support groups, online forums, message boards or email groups. They can help you through the dark times because they have been where you are.

What helped me the most during this period of my life were my daily devotions because they really helped in recovering from infidelity. Infidelity is almost impossible to recover from without God in your life. Having God in your life will make your healing journey much easier because He will guide you and show you the right direction to go in. Doing daily devotions will bring you closer to God and you will find that He will heal your broken heart and spirit. He can melt the anger out of your heart and replace it with forgiveness. You will find that when you do your daily devotions, you will find an inner peace that you didn't have before and this inner peace will help you heal from your spouse's infidelity. God is waiting to heal your heart and your marriage.