I know you may have wondered how to ask a guy to be your boyfriend. In fact, I have met so many girls who are asking the same issue. I understand why you want to know. I have been into the same situation as well and yet knowing that it is possible to do this does not make things any better. You will even end up more confused than before or it may make things harder.

However, I can tell you some ways that will make you learn how to ask a guy to be your boyfriend but they will entail courage, perseverance and patience.

1 Initiate conversation

You cannot ask a guy to be your boyfriend if you do not know him. At the very least, get to know about his personality first. Getting to know him will actually give you an edge and it is also the basis of your success or failure in asking him to be your boyfriend.

2 Be casual

Do not directly ask him the moment that you have the chance to do so. Start the conversation casual and easy. Sometimes, it will take you too many conversations first before you can ask him. It depends on how well you already know the guy. It might be easier to start friendly conversations if you have known each other for quite some time.

3 Perfect timing

Set the perfect date and time wherein you are at your best condition before you ask him right out. If you are rejected, which is possible in this situation, it will be easier for you to pick up the pieces and move on. There is really no telling what will happen afterward but it is best if you expect the worst so that when it happens you are already prepared.

I know learning how to ask a guy to be your boyfriend is a hard predicament for most women. But, if you have the right frame of mind and letting objectivity rule over subjectivity, it will become easier.