Tips to Make Friends
- Think of an activity that interests you and find a local club to join where you can meet others with similar interests. For example, if you enjoy knitting or reading, consider joining a knitting club or a book club. If there isn't a club available for your interests, you can start your own club and advertise in libraries, coffee shops and local recreation centers. Not only will you be able to enjoy time participating in your interests, but you can also socialize and become friends with others who enjoy the same things as you.
- There are several different charitable organizations that are waiting for someone like you to come in and help out. Not only will you be able to network with others and give back to your community, but you can also meet valuable friends along the way. For example, you can volunteer at the local humane society, or you can help run a camp for troubled teens. Your community and your potential friends will be thankful for your time and energy.
- You don't have to go back to school to meet new people. You can choose a night or weekend class where you will learn more about a particular interest or hobby. For example, if you have always wanted to create pottery bowls, find a local class where you can learn how to spin clay on a pottery wheel. When you take classes in specialized interests, you are likely to meet and socialize with others who share the same skills and hobbies.
- Socializing with friends-of-friends is an efficient and enjoyable way to gain new friends for yourself. Go out with your current friends and invite them to bring a few guests along. Attempt to socialize with these acquaintances and make a habit of getting personal contact information such as a phone number, email address or home address. Once you've made contact, keep in contact. The only way to build a friendship is to continue hanging out and socializing with potential new friends.