If all the women in the "Pride and Prejudice" came into reality, which one would you marry? I was in the Student Union for a while at campus, then left later on due to my own laziness.
One day later, one student asked another girl who worked with me in the Student Union about me.
"She..
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" that girl paused a bit, "is a very smart girl.
" Smart, the word was stressed; I understood her, it was used in a derogatory nature.
At that moment, I formed a doubt - to a woman, what kind of smartness is appropriate, what kind of smartness will be resisted or attacked.
Elizabeth is clever because she has self-awareness - she knows clearly what she likes to do, what she hates to do, what she can do, what she can't.
Therefore, she is elegant at a suitable occasion, witty at an unsuitable occasion.
I watched the BBC TV series of Pride and Prejudice three times, and like two scenes best: the first one is that she played with a large dog near Mr.
Bennet's place, on her way to visit her sister.
At that moment, Mr.
Darcy saw her by accident near a window, and admired her own enjoyment.
The other one is when Miss Darcy was playing the piano, Miss Bennet made an ironic reference toward William.
At the moment, Miss.
Darcy stopped, and Elizabeth solved the problem by apologizing with a smile, and said that she forgot to turn the pages of the music sheet.
Her voice sounds nature, her attitude suits the moment.
On one hand, she calmed the panicked Miss Darcy; on the other hand, she solved the concerns of Mr.
Darcy on the side.
The expression of Mr.
Darcy at the moment worth remembering - the way he looked at Elizabeth - full of appreciation, and then, full of love.
A clever woman that can help the man in need would make them grateful; but a woman that can praise the man in glorious time is what men want.
In "Pride and Prejudice", the three women reached this level are, Elizabeth, Jane and Charlotte.
As a comparison, Jane was married to a dream-like life directly; Charlotte was married to the life after a compromise; and Eliza was married to a life that was changed by her own effort.
They don't have any difference, because it depends on their own needs.
It is like people drink, and only themselves know the taste.
And there is another group like Lydia, she is beautiful and is ignorant.
Obtaining a good marry only depends on luck.
However, we cannot judge on that, because she was not self-aware about the happiness and unhappiness.
As long as she enjoyed the current life, she wouldn't feel the losses.
This principle applies to all human beings - stupidity leads to happiness; wisdom leads to pain and confusion.

• If I am a normal man, I would probably choose Charlotte.
  She is on the same level as I am - the desires are easy to meet; and it feels secure on the side.
  
• If I am a bit better, then I would choose Jane for sure.
  Diligent, beautiful, with the ability and cleverness to support the family outside and inside, she is the one to be married.
  
• However, if my own condition is so great that all women want me, then I would pick out an Elizabeth for sure.
  It is important to find a woman with the style and taste that is on the same level as I am.
  

It is nothing more than to see who's more powerful inside and outside.
But if you don't have the EQ and IQ, then get a Lydia is good enough.
At least she is simple - does not take too much time.
I remembered the time at campus, when I was fighting with my boyfriend.
He said angrily, that a woman can't be coaxed by money is so troublesome.
I laughed, for this realistic and funny line.
In this long life, getting something complicated after something simple is pretty cool, as long as we have a broader mind and a stronger heart.
Solitude is nothing to be afraid of; what we should fear is self-hypnosis.
Understand the situation, do not dream for the fantasy.
If someone said to you that you are too clever for him, believe him, he is not good enough for you, whether that is a truth or an excuse.