The 5Biggest Date Turnoffs
Below are 5 of the biggest date turnoffs and how to avoid them.
Heed the advice and you are sure to impress your date.
1.
Don't Apologize Many guys lack confidence.
One sign of this is the fact that they are always apologizing for something, even when it's not their fault.
Don't be that person.
Don't constantly be apologizing for things out of your control, and if you DO have to apologize, don't make a big scene about it.
Be confident that you are making the right choices, and if she doesn't like the date, that's her problem.
Move on to someone who appreciates you.
2.
Don't be Too Affectionate Don't be overly touchy on the first date.
If you are constantly hanging on her, leaning in, trying to hold hands, "get some", this is a definite turn-off for women and if you try any of these things, chances are this will be your first and only date with her.
Show her that you care by listening to her, by treating her well, and by being a gentleman - you will feel better after the date, and you will impress the heck out of her.
3.
Be Decisive What is the kiss of death for any date? "So, what do you want to do next?" Not only is it annoying, it shows that you didn't take the time to plan the date.
Subconsciously, she can see that she is not worth the effort or time it would take you to plan.
When you are trying to pick a seat in a movie, restaurant, theatre, etc, just pick one and stick with it.
It is better to be wrong then to have to go back and forth on whether this seat is better or that one.
Suck it up! Be a man.
4.
Take Care of Yourself Women find it very attractive when a man takes care of himself.
If you are not eating right, and exercising 3-4 times per week, start now.
You don't have any excuses.
Run, jog, walk, lift, swim, bike ride, do whatever you can to be in shape.
If you aren't doing this then you obviously don't care about your health.
If you don't care about yourself, how will you be able to take care of a girlfriend? Wife? A family? You don't have to look like a model, but be reasonable and have goals.
By making your body a priority you are saying to her that you care about yourself.
5.
Do Not Whine or Complain You've all met this kind of person before: always complaining about everything.
They don't like this or that and they hate this and that bugs them.
Stop! If you are one of these people, change now.
Be positive.
You don't have to love everything she loves, or be positive about everything, just watch yourself.
If what you're going to say is negative, don't .
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