- 1). Use an eye-catching title. The title you use should entice him to read the email immediately or keep him from overlooking it if he has a full mailbox. Using a one word descriptive title for instance is a good way to pique his interest. You could also use a title that causes him to become immediately curious, such as "Thanks for Tonight." Adding a suggestive tinge to the title can help you to infuse sexuality that you could only express in person in other circumstances.
- 2). Sort out your thoughts and intent beforehand. The great thing about emails is that once you send them they are received almost instantly. Use this to your advantage by focusing on your purpose. Avoid repeating yourself during composition as this will soon wear on his nerves.
- 3). Get straight to the point. Men often view a head-on approach with appreciation and label it in the same group as asserting yourself with confidence. Avoiding the pleasantries in this case will be a welcomed event. Cutting to the meat of your intent will let him know you mean business even if it is for non-business reasons. For instance, saying you can't wait for him to come by tonight and that you have a pleasant surprise in-store will grab his attention and place it on you. Keeping your email short will also help deter boredom and will allow him to read it several times if he wishes.
- 4). Add an attachment to your email. Sending an enticing picture of yourself or of a funny comic strip can help to spice up the tempo of your email. Giving him a visual will also help to catch his attention as men are typically more visually stimulated. Ensure that if you send a picture of yourself that it is appropriate enough to be opened at work just in case. You can also give him a warning in the title of your email that it is not office suitable.
- 5). End the email on a high note. Using statements that call him to action such as, "I need to see you" or "can't wait to get in touch" can be stimulating and intriguing. This will also serve to grab his attention and distract him from whatever is on his mind.
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