Let's face facts almost every couple's sex life experiences an occasional drought.
In the beginning, the mere idea of the other person is exciting.
Mr.
or Mrs.
Wonderful's beautiful smile, smell, touch, and even tone of voice may cause instant arousal.
The intense attractions between partners may last six months to a year on average.
Later, some couples may experience a gradual decline in their sexual desire.
Others may seem to lose sexual interest in their partner overnight.
Lack of sex drive at some point for both men and women is common.
Here are tips that should put the spice back into your intimate relationship when that unfortunate time comes.
Start positive Don't say, "We need to do something about our nonexistent sex life this minute.
" It immediately places the other person in a defensive position.
This is your relationship with someone you love, not Monday night football.
Your partner having a great defense will not strengthen the bond between the two of you.
Statements of that sort will only lead to even less intimacy.
Highlight past incredible sexual moments, "I really enjoyed the time in your friend's bathroom".
These positive memories will encourage your partner to want to create new more adventurous memories.
Plan it We all live more active daytime lives than a few decades ago.
Therefore, our sexual relations usually are one of the first activities to suffer.
We make doctor appointments, hair appointments, car repair appointments, and a host of others.
Every couple needs to plan intimate "only us" appointments regularly.
You don't have to engage in sexual activity.
You do need to spend this time speaking only of each other intimately.
Tell your mate how much you enjoy particular touches or words used during sexual encounters.
Personally I would never plan to have sex, because it's too much pressure.
However, everyone can commit to having a little interesting conversation.
Make yourself available Many couples are simply mismatched in their times to engage in sexual activity.
One is in the mood for romance and the other isn't, and vice versa.
This type of problem is easily resolved with some give and take on the part of both parties.
One should try to frequently agree to sex if their partner is in the mood.
This advice is for men and women, because women are not the only naysayers.
These concessions on both sides have double benefits.
It increases intimacy and it proves how dedicated you are to pleasing the other person.
The individual couple will have to determine whether or not they're experiencing a natural drop in sexual desire or a more serious situation.
These situations may be an affair, true lost of attraction, or sexual dysfunction.
Couples that fall into any of those categories should seek professional assistance.
In the beginning, the mere idea of the other person is exciting.
Mr.
or Mrs.
Wonderful's beautiful smile, smell, touch, and even tone of voice may cause instant arousal.
The intense attractions between partners may last six months to a year on average.
Later, some couples may experience a gradual decline in their sexual desire.
Others may seem to lose sexual interest in their partner overnight.
Lack of sex drive at some point for both men and women is common.
Here are tips that should put the spice back into your intimate relationship when that unfortunate time comes.
Start positive Don't say, "We need to do something about our nonexistent sex life this minute.
" It immediately places the other person in a defensive position.
This is your relationship with someone you love, not Monday night football.
Your partner having a great defense will not strengthen the bond between the two of you.
Statements of that sort will only lead to even less intimacy.
Highlight past incredible sexual moments, "I really enjoyed the time in your friend's bathroom".
These positive memories will encourage your partner to want to create new more adventurous memories.
Plan it We all live more active daytime lives than a few decades ago.
Therefore, our sexual relations usually are one of the first activities to suffer.
We make doctor appointments, hair appointments, car repair appointments, and a host of others.
Every couple needs to plan intimate "only us" appointments regularly.
You don't have to engage in sexual activity.
You do need to spend this time speaking only of each other intimately.
Tell your mate how much you enjoy particular touches or words used during sexual encounters.
Personally I would never plan to have sex, because it's too much pressure.
However, everyone can commit to having a little interesting conversation.
Make yourself available Many couples are simply mismatched in their times to engage in sexual activity.
One is in the mood for romance and the other isn't, and vice versa.
This type of problem is easily resolved with some give and take on the part of both parties.
One should try to frequently agree to sex if their partner is in the mood.
This advice is for men and women, because women are not the only naysayers.
These concessions on both sides have double benefits.
It increases intimacy and it proves how dedicated you are to pleasing the other person.
The individual couple will have to determine whether or not they're experiencing a natural drop in sexual desire or a more serious situation.
These situations may be an affair, true lost of attraction, or sexual dysfunction.
Couples that fall into any of those categories should seek professional assistance.