It's a pretty common experience for a man to find himself trying to hard to make a woman fall for him. It happens so often, it becomes almost the norm, almost what is expected for a man to do. Unfortunately, this is also what hinders most men from really gaining a successful take on dating and being able to attract a woman that they really desire. When it comes to dating beautiful women, the pressure and the tendency to try too hard with a woman increases to say the least.

Why does this work against you, especially when the woman is VERY attractive?

Because it becomes what she is used to. There's nothing there to attract her attention. Think about it. No one pays attention when a Honda Accord passes by, because we see them all of the time. Yet, when a car we never have seen before passes by, we take notice, even when it's not that hot of a car. You have to be able to make yourself noticeable and doing what every other man does is not going to accomplish this.

What should you do instead?

Fight the urge to try and be her knight in shining armor. Instead, focus on just being a guy that is confident and secure enough, that he does not have to ply her with the usual head over heels approach. She will definitely take notice, because this goes against what she is used to.

Focus on getting HER to want to appeal to YOU.

If you can turn things around a bit, if you can get her to want to be with you, then things will be in your favor from the get go. When a woman tries to do the winning over of a man, it becomes exciting to her. And we all are attracted to things that makes us feel excitement.

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