For some people, once their marriage matures, they find themselves drifting apart from their spouse. Typically this process begins when children enter the relationship. There's an obvious shift in the dynamic between the partners when they have to go from being lovers into being co-parents. If you're a woman who is devoting much of her time to her children, your husband may have started to detach emotionally and physically from you. This isn't anyone's fault, it's just something that happens as the family grows and the children's needs become more pressing. If you feel that your husband is always occupied with something other than you, you need to address that before the problem becomes worse. If you want to get your husband to spend time with you, it's possible. You can reignite the connection between the two of you so you start feeling like romantic partners all over again.

One of the best ways to get your husband to spend more time with you is to plan one-on-one time for the two of you as a couple. It can be exhausting both emotionally and physically when a couple has to tend to the needs of their children, careers and the home all day. They sometimes only have time left for sleep. Why not arrange for a babysitter and then plan a romantic night for you and your husband? You can make this as simple or as extravagant as you like. It doesn't have to cost much at all if you're juggling a limited budget. The main thing is that you and your man have some much needed time alone. This will help you to reconnect and it will remind him of why he loved spending so much time with you in the beginning of your relationship.

If there's something in particular that your husband loves to do, plan on doing that with him. It might be a sport that he enjoys participating in or maybe there's an action movie that he's been talking about seeing. Make all the arrangements yourself and then surprise him by telling him what you two are doing. He'll be touched that you put so much effort into it and since it's an activity he'll enjoy, you already know that the two of you will have a great time together. Not only will this give you more time with him but it will show him that you're still spontaneous and men love seeing that in their wives.