I want you to take a moment to think about bringing a woman home with you.
She's riding back with you and your talking in low, intimate tones.
You come to the front door of your home.
You open the door.
What's the first thing she see's? Hopefully you keep your place reasonably clean and neat.
But if you bring a woman home and the first thing she looks at is an open pizza box with a half-eaten pizza, ashtrays full of cigarette butts, beer or soda cans all over the place, and your clothes (or someone else's) strewn everywhere, you can just about forget anything happening.
That first impression of your home can make or break the rest of your evening.
And morning.
So, before you go out for the evening, pick up around the place.
Make sure the trash is out, the floors are swept or vacuumed, and any messes are picked up.
Also, tidy up the bathroom and make certain the toilet and sink areas are clean.
If you're a collector or things that you liked when you were a kid, put these items away.
Unless you know that she's into these types of things as much as you are, your collection will make you appear childish.
Along this train of thought, put away most of your sports memorabilia.
Now, invest in a few items to have around the house to make it more inviting, comfortable, and sensuous.
Here's a short list: oSoft pillows for the couch and bed.
oIf you play a musical instrument, have it out on a desk or table oInteresting artwork - something that will lead to conversation oA cluster of candles on a table or mantle oA book of nudes for the coffee table Taking a little bit of time to prepare your home will set a sensuous mood for the evening.
As the two of you set back, relax, and talk, everything's ready for the evening take its' course.