One of the best reasons to trying out cam sites comes from just how satisfying it is to be a part of the realization of your kink on screen. While you can almost always find some kind of prerecorded porn that offers some version of a kink, it is not the same as interacting with the person who is acting it out in front of you. And while you may end up spending money on access to a site that does not have exactly what you were looking for when it comes to specific fetishes, cam sites allow you a greater amount of input on precisely how things go down, which nets you more for the same dollar spent.
Any way you look at it, cam sites are more than worth finding the effort of finding the perfect model. Quite often you may even end up with more than one model that gets the job done for you. So what does it take to make cam sites the final destination for your favorite kinks? Well, we have some suggestions.
Determine How Rare Your Kink Really Is
When you start comparing gay cam sites against one another, always be sure to start with the simple question of whether or not it satisfies your kinks. If you have more than one, you can lead with the one you feel will be the most difficult to find, but ultimately the pot of gold you are looking for is one site that can meet all of your wants and needs, even if it is through different performers. You don't want to be stuck in a situation where you have converted x amount of money into y tokens and then never have a reason to go back and use those tokens on that site. That is just wasted money you could have been spending somewhere where your kinks are actually seen too. If, however, you are on a site that manages to hit all of your kinks, then having some tokens left over after a few tips is no big deal. More than likely, you are just going to use them in the next session anyway. End result: no money lost.
Always Look to Forums and Consider Reviews
There are two kinds of opinions you will find online: the personal and the paid for. Learning to tell the difference is a rite of passage not everyone passes. One of the best ways to cheat this a little is to limit whose opinions you take and when it comes to that, you won't do much better than forums. Of course there is a chance someone might pay for a positive forum post, or even fund an entire forum site to make themselves look good, but the fact of the matter in most of these scenarios is that it's usually too much money and too obvious for most companies to bother. This is compounded by the fact that any real forum that you would normally participate in is going to have other people that take people to task if they suspect a review of any kind was bought and paid for. So while it may not help you learn to tell the difference directly, you can rely on angry strangers to help out all the same.
In contrast are sites that are more or less devoted to giving feedback without asking for any themselves. While there are plenty of personal opinion blogs out there willing to share their thoughts on places they have been and what they have seen, the chances of them doing all of this over and over again without any compensation is pretty low. So low, in fact, that you can more or less assume any one man team is basically shilling for one company or another. Places that are open about their purpose, or who have been setup by a group of guys are more likely to be honest opinion, however, and generally separate of the companies they recommend or downplay. Advice taken from these sites may still require a grain of salt, but are usually not financially connected to the end result of their reviews and be taken at face value a majority of the time.
When You Need to Consider Models with Similar Kinks
Sometimes, no matter how hard you try, it just seems impossible to get the exact kink you want. We've been there too, but rather than stew in frustration like we had to, we've already found the best solution for you. If you are having difficulty finding one particular kink, try branching out to similar kinks instead. A lot of the time, it is not a matter of no one being willing to put on a show for that particular fetish, but simply a matter of jargon and forgetfulness. The fact is a lot of people are going to refer to the same kinks in different ways. It's just a factor of where you learned what you know and what sites you have visited beforehand. If someone thinks one kink is assumed when another is mentioned, you aren't going to see both listed: it's as simple as that.
Don't immediately think that just because the comparison of gay cam sites you found doesn't specifically mention the one kink you are interested in that it just isn't available. Even if it is something far too specific to expect any group of people to frequently list it in their profiles, your chances of finding someone who will perform it for you are still pretty high. Look too the kinks the comparisons do include and if any are similar to what you are looking for, treat it like a hit for that particular kink. Probability, at least, is on your side with this one.
Biting the Bullet and Buying What You Want
Of course, if all else fails, there is always the option of straight up buying what you want. This isn't something that is going to appeal to everyone, since a lot of it relies on having a good amount of disposable income, so keep in mind that your budget does need to factor into this at some point. That does not mean you are left completely out in the cold if it's not something you can immediately throw down for, though. All it means is that to get exactly what you want, you have to save up a bit. In the meantime, however, there are sure to be other options to keep you satisfied.
By comparison, we have found it far more common for gay cam sites to cater to the more vanilla version of a kink someone is having a hard time fulfilling than to not come close to offering it at all. The main difficulty, then seems to involve specifics to more common fetishes rather than super rare kinks all on their own. That means while you may have to pay to get that specific on point, it should not be all that much more than what you would normally pay for the kink in general. Likewise, if you do end up having to save up for exactly what you want, you can still watch the more generic version of the same kink while you wait.
Any way you look at it, cam sites are more than worth finding the effort of finding the perfect model. Quite often you may even end up with more than one model that gets the job done for you. So what does it take to make cam sites the final destination for your favorite kinks? Well, we have some suggestions.
Determine How Rare Your Kink Really Is
When you start comparing gay cam sites against one another, always be sure to start with the simple question of whether or not it satisfies your kinks. If you have more than one, you can lead with the one you feel will be the most difficult to find, but ultimately the pot of gold you are looking for is one site that can meet all of your wants and needs, even if it is through different performers. You don't want to be stuck in a situation where you have converted x amount of money into y tokens and then never have a reason to go back and use those tokens on that site. That is just wasted money you could have been spending somewhere where your kinks are actually seen too. If, however, you are on a site that manages to hit all of your kinks, then having some tokens left over after a few tips is no big deal. More than likely, you are just going to use them in the next session anyway. End result: no money lost.
Always Look to Forums and Consider Reviews
There are two kinds of opinions you will find online: the personal and the paid for. Learning to tell the difference is a rite of passage not everyone passes. One of the best ways to cheat this a little is to limit whose opinions you take and when it comes to that, you won't do much better than forums. Of course there is a chance someone might pay for a positive forum post, or even fund an entire forum site to make themselves look good, but the fact of the matter in most of these scenarios is that it's usually too much money and too obvious for most companies to bother. This is compounded by the fact that any real forum that you would normally participate in is going to have other people that take people to task if they suspect a review of any kind was bought and paid for. So while it may not help you learn to tell the difference directly, you can rely on angry strangers to help out all the same.
In contrast are sites that are more or less devoted to giving feedback without asking for any themselves. While there are plenty of personal opinion blogs out there willing to share their thoughts on places they have been and what they have seen, the chances of them doing all of this over and over again without any compensation is pretty low. So low, in fact, that you can more or less assume any one man team is basically shilling for one company or another. Places that are open about their purpose, or who have been setup by a group of guys are more likely to be honest opinion, however, and generally separate of the companies they recommend or downplay. Advice taken from these sites may still require a grain of salt, but are usually not financially connected to the end result of their reviews and be taken at face value a majority of the time.
When You Need to Consider Models with Similar Kinks
Sometimes, no matter how hard you try, it just seems impossible to get the exact kink you want. We've been there too, but rather than stew in frustration like we had to, we've already found the best solution for you. If you are having difficulty finding one particular kink, try branching out to similar kinks instead. A lot of the time, it is not a matter of no one being willing to put on a show for that particular fetish, but simply a matter of jargon and forgetfulness. The fact is a lot of people are going to refer to the same kinks in different ways. It's just a factor of where you learned what you know and what sites you have visited beforehand. If someone thinks one kink is assumed when another is mentioned, you aren't going to see both listed: it's as simple as that.
Don't immediately think that just because the comparison of gay cam sites you found doesn't specifically mention the one kink you are interested in that it just isn't available. Even if it is something far too specific to expect any group of people to frequently list it in their profiles, your chances of finding someone who will perform it for you are still pretty high. Look too the kinks the comparisons do include and if any are similar to what you are looking for, treat it like a hit for that particular kink. Probability, at least, is on your side with this one.
Biting the Bullet and Buying What You Want
Of course, if all else fails, there is always the option of straight up buying what you want. This isn't something that is going to appeal to everyone, since a lot of it relies on having a good amount of disposable income, so keep in mind that your budget does need to factor into this at some point. That does not mean you are left completely out in the cold if it's not something you can immediately throw down for, though. All it means is that to get exactly what you want, you have to save up a bit. In the meantime, however, there are sure to be other options to keep you satisfied.
By comparison, we have found it far more common for gay cam sites to cater to the more vanilla version of a kink someone is having a hard time fulfilling than to not come close to offering it at all. The main difficulty, then seems to involve specifics to more common fetishes rather than super rare kinks all on their own. That means while you may have to pay to get that specific on point, it should not be all that much more than what you would normally pay for the kink in general. Likewise, if you do end up having to save up for exactly what you want, you can still watch the more generic version of the same kink while you wait.