Many women struggle with their relationships with men.
The biggest problem they have is they do not understand their man and often think, "What do men want from women?" This is an all too common situation.
A woman meets a man who seems perfect for her in the beginning.
He is good looking, attentive, and great fun.
However, once he feels that he has her, he stops courting her.
He does not call so often, and when he comes over, he does not take her out but just settles into a boring relationship with her.
Eventually, he stops coming around just making excuses such as he has things to do...
She wonders to herself what she did wrong.
She frets about how she looks even though she knows that she takes good care of herself and keeps herself fit and healthy by exercising and eating good food.
What has she done to attract men who take her for granted, then lose interest, and eventually do not bother coming back...
? She has seen other women less attractive than her going out with nice men who treat them well and who are considerate, courteous and "court" them.
She wonders again how I can find out what do men want from women.
Obviously, it is not just a matter of finding the right man.
Women who have wonderful relationships did not find good men but instead attracted them.
Here are a few tips to become more attractive to your "perfect" man: First, what a man really finds attractive about a woman is not her great legs, or eyes or figure.
It is how she carries herself.
If a woman is confident, sure of who she is, and knows where she is going in life, she will attract men to her.
Another thing that attracts a man to a woman is that she knows how to have fun.
A man likes a woman to be independent but not exclusive.
She knows how to take care of herself but is happy to be soft with her man and vulnerable, without being needy or a push over.
When a man is looking for a woman to spend time with and potentially settle down with, he also looks for someone who can be his equal but is able to take care of him and any children they may have.
He will look for someone who can cook and create a home for them, as deep down most men are still a bit old-fashioned.
Bottom line is that most men will want to marry.
Being single is great in that you can "go wild and kick your heels up," and do as you please.
It is also very lonely at times, and men in general do not cope well with loneliness.
These tips are some of the things that men want from women.
When you are thinking about your past relationships with men, instead of doing what you did before, try doing something different.