It's a pretty simple desire to have. You know that your ex girlfriend is the one that you want to be with, and even though you and her are not together right now, you know that you SHOULD be. The thing is, you are not really sure of what steps you need to take to get your girlfriend to come back to you.
That is not a good feeling to have, I know.
The more time that you spend alone, you end up thinking about her. You can picture her face looking back at you and it makes you smile. And then, you have to deal with the reality that she is NOT there. She is gone. And that leaves an empty feeling in your stomach. You cannot shake that feeling, and it seems to be getting in the way of things. What if you COULD bring her back? What if you could change her mind, and make her feel like she DOES want to be in a relationship with you?
Here are some tips on how to get your girlfriend back that will help give you a START:
1. You have to STOP torturing yourself.
When you feel bad about the breakup, when thinking about her makes you feel sad and alone, it does not put you in a good physical state of being. You end up feeling depressed and don't really want to do anything at all. Now, think about that for a minute. Does that sound like something that your ex girlfriend will be attracted to? Does that seem like it would pull her back? It's NOT. Stop torturing yourself, and let yourself BE HAPPY. Get in a better frame of mind and you will INSTANTLY increase your chances of actually having her back in your life.
2. You have to know what is going on with HER.
Now, by this I am not saying that you need to call her up, contact her by e-mail or anything like that. No, you have to know what SHE is going through if you are going to be able to win her back. See, if you only see things from YOUR point of view, then you won't really be able to make that connection with her that is going to pull her back. You need to get in her mind, and then you will start to see HOW to get her back.
3. You have to have the RIGHT plan set before you.
Most plans or guides to get an ex back are supposed to be one size fits all methods that work for both men and women. Do you SEE the PROBLEM with that? Men and women are VERY different when it comes to how they think and how they feel about love, dating, and relationships. You need to have a guide that is specifically DESIGNED for MEN and not some book that is chock full of advice for both men and women.
That is not a good feeling to have, I know.
The more time that you spend alone, you end up thinking about her. You can picture her face looking back at you and it makes you smile. And then, you have to deal with the reality that she is NOT there. She is gone. And that leaves an empty feeling in your stomach. You cannot shake that feeling, and it seems to be getting in the way of things. What if you COULD bring her back? What if you could change her mind, and make her feel like she DOES want to be in a relationship with you?
Here are some tips on how to get your girlfriend back that will help give you a START:
1. You have to STOP torturing yourself.
When you feel bad about the breakup, when thinking about her makes you feel sad and alone, it does not put you in a good physical state of being. You end up feeling depressed and don't really want to do anything at all. Now, think about that for a minute. Does that sound like something that your ex girlfriend will be attracted to? Does that seem like it would pull her back? It's NOT. Stop torturing yourself, and let yourself BE HAPPY. Get in a better frame of mind and you will INSTANTLY increase your chances of actually having her back in your life.
2. You have to know what is going on with HER.
Now, by this I am not saying that you need to call her up, contact her by e-mail or anything like that. No, you have to know what SHE is going through if you are going to be able to win her back. See, if you only see things from YOUR point of view, then you won't really be able to make that connection with her that is going to pull her back. You need to get in her mind, and then you will start to see HOW to get her back.
3. You have to have the RIGHT plan set before you.
Most plans or guides to get an ex back are supposed to be one size fits all methods that work for both men and women. Do you SEE the PROBLEM with that? Men and women are VERY different when it comes to how they think and how they feel about love, dating, and relationships. You need to have a guide that is specifically DESIGNED for MEN and not some book that is chock full of advice for both men and women.