You've had to hear it through the grapevine and now that you know what's really going on, a part of you wishes that you just could go back to when you did not know. What am I talking about? I'm talking about the fact that you have found out that the love of your life, the one woman you can't seem to get out of your mind... she is seeing someone else. Your friends tell you not to sweat it, that she's no big deal really. They say that it's a good thing that she is seeing someone else, so that now you can get her off of your mind.

You know they are WRONG.

You know that no matter what, you still want to get your ex girlfriend back. You would do anything humanly possible to try and get her back. Now, there is a new obstacle in your way and that is another dude. It's easy to get mad at him and think he is a total jerk. You know what? If it makes you feel any better... he probably is. Should you be alarmed to find out that your ex girlfriend is seeing someone else?

You better be!

Seriously, this is a call to action for you. It's time to stop sitting back and sulking about how you don't have her anymore. It's time to man up and decide that you are going to do something about it. Now, don't get too ahead of yourself though. It's not time to go acting the fool just because you are ready to man up. In this situation, manning up just means that you need to find out what really works to get your girlfriend back from that other guy.

Don't get mad, don't get even... get her back!

It's also not time to get too mad at the new guy. Nor is it time to get even, at least not in the conventional way. IF you do want to get even with him, why not be productive and get even by getting your ex girlfriend back. I guarantee that if you put forth the right effort to win her back... then there is a pretty good shot that she will kick him to the curb and come back to where she belongs which of course is with YOU.

Female psychology for the win!

As long as you are dead serious about getting her back, then you need to do what most men will never do. That is, you need to learn a little bit about female psychology. Luckily, we're not talking about any doctorate stuff here, just the basics on what makes a woman fall in love with a guy. Then, you can pull the right strings and make her want you and forget about what's his name!

Women fall in love with men who "get" them.

This is more powerful than anything else that you can do. Better than buying her expensive stuff, better than taking her around the world. All you have to do is find a way to "get" her. By that I mean, when you know what makes her really tick at the core level... you will have an unfair advantage over ANY other guy who wants her.