I Think My Ex Girlfriend Wants Me Back - How Do I Know For Sure?
It's natural that you would want to have some kind of certainty as far as knowing for sure about whether or not you can win back an ex girlfriend. You might have been stunned when you and her broke up, and you certainly don't want to have to deal with that EVER again, right? However, the reality is that you can never really know with 100 percent certainty that your ex girlfriend wants you back. You can take lots of clues and stack them together and be pretty sure, but you'll never be absolutely sure.
That is, until you make a move to find out. Of course, then you'll know for sure if she wants you back or if she is really not interested in getting back together.
Let's look at some of the clues that she might want to get back together with you:
1. Your ex girlfriend makes sure that she stays in contact with you.
Her wanting to stay in contact is usually something that should be seen as a good thing. I mean, it's better to know that she wants to stay in contact with you as opposed to her harshly letting you know that she wants nothing at all to do with you.
2. She hints at reconciling.
If she drops hints, says things that imply that she would like to be dating you again, then you might as well assume that it means that she does want you back. She might be just hinting at it for the fun of it, but most of the time I would say that her hinting at getting back together is a good thing.
3. She texts you from time to time with cute messages.
The cuter the better. Getting a text like, I want my stuff back, isn't the same as getting one that is intended to be cute. So, if you are getting text messages that are cute from your ex girlfriend, then it might be a good guess that she is interested in getting back together as a couple.
Like I said before, though, you'll never know with absolute certainty that your ex girlfriend wants to get back together unless you actually decide to make a move. The thought of her rejecting you again may not be a good one, but think about what it would feel like if you were to make a move and find out that she really DOES want you back in her life.
That is, until you make a move to find out. Of course, then you'll know for sure if she wants you back or if she is really not interested in getting back together.
Let's look at some of the clues that she might want to get back together with you:
1. Your ex girlfriend makes sure that she stays in contact with you.
Her wanting to stay in contact is usually something that should be seen as a good thing. I mean, it's better to know that she wants to stay in contact with you as opposed to her harshly letting you know that she wants nothing at all to do with you.
2. She hints at reconciling.
If she drops hints, says things that imply that she would like to be dating you again, then you might as well assume that it means that she does want you back. She might be just hinting at it for the fun of it, but most of the time I would say that her hinting at getting back together is a good thing.
3. She texts you from time to time with cute messages.
The cuter the better. Getting a text like, I want my stuff back, isn't the same as getting one that is intended to be cute. So, if you are getting text messages that are cute from your ex girlfriend, then it might be a good guess that she is interested in getting back together as a couple.
Like I said before, though, you'll never know with absolute certainty that your ex girlfriend wants to get back together unless you actually decide to make a move. The thought of her rejecting you again may not be a good one, but think about what it would feel like if you were to make a move and find out that she really DOES want you back in her life.