There is a common notion that it is easier for boys to approach a girl first as compared to a girl that can approach a boy. But this is not true always. You will also find girls that are smarter than boys and will take the first initiative in declaring their feeling for someone they like or have a crush on. In this article, we will find out how to get a girl to like you if you are the kind of guy who is shy and an introvert. These tips will surely help you out of the situation. So, check out these tips.

• Be yourself - The most important thing to keep in mind is that it is always best to be what you are. You need not change your personality to impress a girl. If the girl really likes your company and is interested in you, she will accept you the way you are. And moreover, if you put up a fake personality now, it only indicates that the foundation of your relationship is on fake grounds and neither of you have true feelings but just playing around.


• Be a friend first - There are several instances when two very good friends have turned into life partners. Prior to getting into a relationship, it is important to be a good friend first.


• Know her - If you like a girl and want her to like you too, you have to know her first. What are her likes and dislikes and her type of personality, whether or not she is an extrovert or if she likes to stay within her circle of friends and the like.


• Give time to yourself- It is oftentimes said that even an entire lifetime is not enough to know a person. Do not rush into anything. Give yourself ample time. Approach her first, talk to her casually, find out her worries and if possible comfort her. And if you think you can take her out for a cup of coffee, try it.


• Appear clean and well dressed - No girl will want to befriend a boy who is dirty and does not care about his looks. Although looks are not everything but to some extent looks do matter. You should appear to be comfortable to talk to and stay with.


• Be kind - Kindness does not necessarily mean that you have to always be at her service. Give her a helping hand when she needs. For instance, if you have taken her out for a cup of coffee at a caf, you can pull the chair for her or may be help her with her belongings when she is making an effort to sit.


• Have self respect and dignity - No girl will want to be a friend of a spineless fellow. You should have your own convictions and principles, which you should abide by. You should also have enough self respect and dignity. There are girls that love their boyfriends to be running around them always. But this is because they are dominating types. But you have a life of your own and a career too. If you are well established and well settled, you will have girls running after you.