Ever wonder why the most beautiful women hook up with the most self-absorbed jerks? You are not alone in this thinking.
This question has plagued the minds of men for centuries.
The answer lies in the qualities most women find attractive, and the jerk emulates these qualities in a pretentious way.
The true qualities of the Alpha male are leadership, courage, confidence and dominance.
Women are attracted to these qualities, because they offer protection and security.
The jerk exhibits these qualities in an over-inflated way trying to imitate the true nature of the Alpha male.
The woman is initially attracted to the jerk thinking he is self assured and self reliant when, in fact, he is exhibiting these qualities only to dominate over her and have her do what he wants.
There has always been a struggle between the Alpha male and the Beta male for women's affections.
The Alpha male is seen as the provider and the procreator, and this is why women are instinctively attracted to them.
As mentioned, the jerk is a slight imitation of the alpha male, and he tries to create an illusion of superiority over others by putting down other men and lowering the self value of the woman by having her attend to his every need.
Sooner or later, this illusion comes crashing down, and the woman will no longer put up with it.
In the end, the jerk loses the girl and moves on.
The poor Beta male never had a chance to begin with, since he does not either truly have these qualities of the Alpha male or refuses to imitate them as the jerk would.
The Alpha male and the jerk do share one thing in common, and that is the sense of self value.
On the other hand, the Beta male is uncertain of his self value, and this shows when interacting with woman.
So who is really losing out with the affections of women? It all depends on what a man wants.
The jerk may date many pretty women, but in the end, he ends up losing them, therefore never knowing what it is like to have a long-lasting relationship.
The Beta male may not date as many women or the most beautiful women, but he may find one woman whom he truly loves and will experience a long-lasting relationship with her.
This question has plagued the minds of men for centuries.
The answer lies in the qualities most women find attractive, and the jerk emulates these qualities in a pretentious way.
The true qualities of the Alpha male are leadership, courage, confidence and dominance.
Women are attracted to these qualities, because they offer protection and security.
The jerk exhibits these qualities in an over-inflated way trying to imitate the true nature of the Alpha male.
The woman is initially attracted to the jerk thinking he is self assured and self reliant when, in fact, he is exhibiting these qualities only to dominate over her and have her do what he wants.
There has always been a struggle between the Alpha male and the Beta male for women's affections.
The Alpha male is seen as the provider and the procreator, and this is why women are instinctively attracted to them.
As mentioned, the jerk is a slight imitation of the alpha male, and he tries to create an illusion of superiority over others by putting down other men and lowering the self value of the woman by having her attend to his every need.
Sooner or later, this illusion comes crashing down, and the woman will no longer put up with it.
In the end, the jerk loses the girl and moves on.
The poor Beta male never had a chance to begin with, since he does not either truly have these qualities of the Alpha male or refuses to imitate them as the jerk would.
The Alpha male and the jerk do share one thing in common, and that is the sense of self value.
On the other hand, the Beta male is uncertain of his self value, and this shows when interacting with woman.
So who is really losing out with the affections of women? It all depends on what a man wants.
The jerk may date many pretty women, but in the end, he ends up losing them, therefore never knowing what it is like to have a long-lasting relationship.
The Beta male may not date as many women or the most beautiful women, but he may find one woman whom he truly loves and will experience a long-lasting relationship with her.