So you just got home from your first or second date with a new person.
You like this person very much, the chemistry is great, you both were laughing and having fun.
How do you know if the other person feels the same way as you do? Here are some basic guidelines to let you know if the person you are starting to date feels the same as you.
First, they make things easy for you.
That means they answer the phone when you call or call you back in a timely fashion, they initiate dates, they don't flake or if they can't make a date, they propose an alternate time.
When someone is truly attracted and interested in you, they make it easy for you, there is no mystery or guess work.
Guys, if a girl likes you, she'll help you along- she'll laugh at your stupid jokes, she'll finish your bumbling sentences for you, she'll excuse your mistakes.
Girls, if a guy likes you, he will go after you aggressively, he will make dates and stick to them, every little blemish of yours will be attractive to them.
I have never gotten into a relationship where the initial dating stages were a mystery or a chore.
There was no guesswork, the girl made it clear she was interested me, I reciprocated, and we moved along quickly into getting to know each other better.
In other words, your new potential love will be responsive and will make you feel good in their company.
So how do you test this? Guys, at the end of the first date, make sure you go to kiss the girl on the lips.
If she pulls back, she's uninterested.
Ladies, look to see if the guy makes amorous advances like that to you at the end of the date.
If he doesn't, he might be shy, but chances are he's just not that interested.
A few days after the date, reach out and make plans for another date.
If your potential amour responds back immediately, you have an interested person, if they are noncommittal or don't get back to you in a timely fashion, chances are they're just not that interested.
Remember, when someone is interested in you, they make sure that you know.