Taking sexual control in a relationship goes far beyond what takes place in the sack.
It's well known that men are more physical with naughtier minds than woman.
This naturally gives women a sexual power over men as we typically have stronger physical desires.
Women can manipulate this power in any fashion that they choose depending on their intent.
Tools within their arsenal include teasing, withholding sex, flirting, dressing sexy, and foreplay just to name a few.
It's basically an uphill battle for men to reach a level playing field or to gain the upper advantage.
Sexual control is dominated by desire.
The more that your woman desires you translates into a power that you can manipulate at your own leisure.
The tools to make this happen are there, you just have to know what they are and how to use them.
Before we get to those tools that go beyond the bedroom, it is necessary to emphasize that you are doing a good job of satisfying your women with one or more climaxes.
Women can easily give up on passion and desire if it only leads to a disappointing performance in bed.
No amount of advice can get a man past being a weak lover in bed in the desire department.
So, here are some tools that you can use.
Tool #1: Condition the Mind You want to condition her mind to be in a naughty mindset more often.
If you take notice of women, you can see that they do a fantastic job of this.
Sometimes they don't even know it as it is nearly instinct for them.
They do this by appealing to man's visual stimulations that correlate to attractiveness.
They do things like:
Their desire buttons cover a wider range in areas like mental, touch, smell, and sound.
Skillfully pressing these desire buttons at the right time and in the right fashion will put her in a naughty mindset more often.
This is vital to gaining sexual control over your woman.
Tool #2: Desire Button Tips Each woman is unique, but there are some general desire buttons that the majority of women possess.
Many of our senses can be manipulated in a sensual way.
Vision is the simplest as we typically respond to a nude body or sexual behavior.
Here are some tips that can get her in a naughty mind state outside the bedroom.
Smell Women love a good smelling man.
It triggers a sensual tone with their sense of smell.
Wearing cologne on dating nights and even during regular occasions coud trigger this sensual mindset.
This effect could be even better if you were to sample cologne with her while shopping.
This would ensure that you're wearing the cologne that affects her the most that you both like.
Touch Stimulating her erogenous zones in a sensual manner will tip the scales in your favor.
Areas to focus on include the upper inner thigh, and the neck (especially the back of the neck).
We can easily go to other areas, but as the focus here is to set her mind state outside of the bedroom, these are zones that can be massaged or caressed with her clothes on.
Sound Whispering something in her ear has an up close and personal touch.
Saying something sensual in a whispered fashion can be erotic.
This approach doesn't even require words.
Simply breathing in her ear in an "In the Heat" fashion can trigger her desire.
It doesn't have to be heavy breathing, but something moderate and light should give her the message.
Tool #3: Bedroom Hints Conditioning her mind to be naughtier can also use some preparation from the bedroom.
Certain acts in the heat of passion can be used as preparation for reminders outside of the bedroom.
Here are a couple.
1.
Hair Pulling - In the bedroom, pulling her hair brings out the wild side in both participants.
Outside the bedroom, giving a momentary tug of her hair will definitely remind her of the wild moments in the bedroom.
2.
Spanking - In the bedroom, spanking (Not too Hard) is another wild side behavior in the bedroom.
Outside the bedroom, giving her a surprising tap or squeeze on the butt will give her a reminder of the wild times in the bedroom Keep in mind that these tools are best utilized in a tasteful and respectful manner.
You should have an overall knowledge of what your girl would tolerate and find offensive.
You definitely don't want to cross any lines that could put you in the dog house.
Remember, conditioning the mind is vital to gaining sexual control.
Make sure that you press those desire buttons within the many senses that she has.
Use them while dating or just around the house.
Tool #4: Foreplay Teasing This bedroom tactic is too crucial to ignore.
Teasing isn't a tool that can only be used women.
Usually men are the anxious ones to get to the stage of intercourse.
Turning the tables on her so that she is the one demanding intercourse before you adds to your power of manipulating her desire.
This requires some patience and swagger attitude as the goal is to have her ask and even beg to have all of you.
While foreplay is taking place, you should notice just how much she is in the heat.
When you notice her heat to be at a high point, this is the perfect time to passionately ask her if she wants you.
Make sure that she answers positively at least two or three times before you give her what she is longing for.
This will show her that you can drive her crazy too while being reserved.
It's well known that men are more physical with naughtier minds than woman.
This naturally gives women a sexual power over men as we typically have stronger physical desires.
Women can manipulate this power in any fashion that they choose depending on their intent.
Tools within their arsenal include teasing, withholding sex, flirting, dressing sexy, and foreplay just to name a few.
It's basically an uphill battle for men to reach a level playing field or to gain the upper advantage.
Sexual control is dominated by desire.
The more that your woman desires you translates into a power that you can manipulate at your own leisure.
The tools to make this happen are there, you just have to know what they are and how to use them.
Before we get to those tools that go beyond the bedroom, it is necessary to emphasize that you are doing a good job of satisfying your women with one or more climaxes.
Women can easily give up on passion and desire if it only leads to a disappointing performance in bed.
No amount of advice can get a man past being a weak lover in bed in the desire department.
So, here are some tools that you can use.
Tool #1: Condition the Mind You want to condition her mind to be in a naughty mindset more often.
If you take notice of women, you can see that they do a fantastic job of this.
Sometimes they don't even know it as it is nearly instinct for them.
They do this by appealing to man's visual stimulations that correlate to attractiveness.
They do things like:
- Put on their makeup
- Do their hair
- Get their nails (Both Fingers and Toes) done
- Put on sexy heels that accentuate their calves
- Put on nice dresses that highlight their best assets
- Use perfume to entice men's sense of smell
Their desire buttons cover a wider range in areas like mental, touch, smell, and sound.
Skillfully pressing these desire buttons at the right time and in the right fashion will put her in a naughty mindset more often.
This is vital to gaining sexual control over your woman.
Tool #2: Desire Button Tips Each woman is unique, but there are some general desire buttons that the majority of women possess.
Many of our senses can be manipulated in a sensual way.
Vision is the simplest as we typically respond to a nude body or sexual behavior.
Here are some tips that can get her in a naughty mind state outside the bedroom.
Smell Women love a good smelling man.
It triggers a sensual tone with their sense of smell.
Wearing cologne on dating nights and even during regular occasions coud trigger this sensual mindset.
This effect could be even better if you were to sample cologne with her while shopping.
This would ensure that you're wearing the cologne that affects her the most that you both like.
Touch Stimulating her erogenous zones in a sensual manner will tip the scales in your favor.
Areas to focus on include the upper inner thigh, and the neck (especially the back of the neck).
We can easily go to other areas, but as the focus here is to set her mind state outside of the bedroom, these are zones that can be massaged or caressed with her clothes on.
Sound Whispering something in her ear has an up close and personal touch.
Saying something sensual in a whispered fashion can be erotic.
This approach doesn't even require words.
Simply breathing in her ear in an "In the Heat" fashion can trigger her desire.
It doesn't have to be heavy breathing, but something moderate and light should give her the message.
Tool #3: Bedroom Hints Conditioning her mind to be naughtier can also use some preparation from the bedroom.
Certain acts in the heat of passion can be used as preparation for reminders outside of the bedroom.
Here are a couple.
1.
Hair Pulling - In the bedroom, pulling her hair brings out the wild side in both participants.
Outside the bedroom, giving a momentary tug of her hair will definitely remind her of the wild moments in the bedroom.
2.
Spanking - In the bedroom, spanking (Not too Hard) is another wild side behavior in the bedroom.
Outside the bedroom, giving her a surprising tap or squeeze on the butt will give her a reminder of the wild times in the bedroom Keep in mind that these tools are best utilized in a tasteful and respectful manner.
You should have an overall knowledge of what your girl would tolerate and find offensive.
You definitely don't want to cross any lines that could put you in the dog house.
Remember, conditioning the mind is vital to gaining sexual control.
Make sure that you press those desire buttons within the many senses that she has.
Use them while dating or just around the house.
Tool #4: Foreplay Teasing This bedroom tactic is too crucial to ignore.
Teasing isn't a tool that can only be used women.
Usually men are the anxious ones to get to the stage of intercourse.
Turning the tables on her so that she is the one demanding intercourse before you adds to your power of manipulating her desire.
This requires some patience and swagger attitude as the goal is to have her ask and even beg to have all of you.
While foreplay is taking place, you should notice just how much she is in the heat.
When you notice her heat to be at a high point, this is the perfect time to passionately ask her if she wants you.
Make sure that she answers positively at least two or three times before you give her what she is longing for.
This will show her that you can drive her crazy too while being reserved.