Significance of Bride’s Veil

• The bride’s veil imparts the impression of concealment and is a symbolic means of lengthening the anticipation of the big reveal. Although in modern times, grooms know what their brides look like before the ceremony, the anticipation of unveiling the bride still conveys a mysterious quality to the ceremony. The beauty of the bride and the obscurity of the act combine to make the unveiling a special moment.
  
  

Lifting the Veil

• Prompted by the minister, the groom lifts the veil near the end of the wedding ceremony just before he kisses the bride. He usually lifts it very slowly and takes in the beauty of his bride. He lifts the veil and straightens it so that it rests behind the bride’s head. It is a good idea for the groom to practice this step so that the process will be smooth and unhurried.
  
  

History

• According to Marjabelle Stewart, author of “The Complete Wedding Planner,” the tradition of the bridal veil in the United States likely stemmed from the nuptials of Nelly Custis and Major Lawrence Lewis, President George Washington’s aide. When he saw her loveliness through a lace curtain, he commented on her beauty as she appeared through a veiled obstacle, prompting her to simulate that effect during her wedding.
  
  

Pageantry

• The pageantry involved in the ritual of removing the veil is often more meaningful to the participants than any symbolism the veil may hold. Modern brides see it simply as a beautiful accessory to their wedding gown rather than part of a historical ritual that may be representative of any deeper meaning.