The dating game is tough one.
Learning to play isn't easy because the simple fact is men and women are motivated by different things.
Men, as much as we might respect women, really do hope for sex 99% of the time.
Women want to be swept off their feet, romanced; and it is because of this the rules often put the power in the hands of the women.
Here are some things to try to tip the balance of power back towards you.
Flirt Women are better at flirting, but you can learn to do it too.
Where as a woman might have more power with a glance or a smile, a man's power to flirt should rely on verbal communication.
Engage her in some casual conversation, charm her.
Be Mysterious Don't show all your cards at once.
The more complicated and mysterious she thinks you are the better.
She knows you're not James Bond, luckily you don't have to be.
Let her spill her life story, but be brief like you're leaving out some key information.
Reverse Psychology Works Reverse psychology works because her brain will recognize whatever clever juxtaposition you managed to create.
She may not pick up on it right away, but subconsciously, as her brain works to make sense of your words, your connection to her becomes stronger.
Act Casual If she's the most beautiful girl in the room she probably knows it.
Don't hit on her.
Tell her you're meeting someone and you're nervous, ask her if she thinks you look alright.
She'll feel more relaxed that you're not directly hitting on her.
Later, after you've had a few drinks with her, she'll eventually ask where is the person you were supposed to meet.
By this time you'll be able to tell if she's into you at all and you can say something like, "I think she's here.
" She'll look around the room, "where?" but you keep your eyes on her.
When she looks back at you give a little smile and offer to buy her another drink.
Keep Her on Her Toes If the two of you hit it off and you're both enjoying the conversation the tendency for most guys is to want to keep it going.
But eventually you'll get to the point where you finish a story, you both finish a polite chuckle and then pause, waiting for the other to speak.
Try preventing that lull in conversations by excusing yourself politely in the middle of a story.
Give her a little time to think about you by herself, maybe even miss you a little bit.
Lie to Her If you try to be something your not it won't take most women long to figure out what you're up to.
If you're ashamed of being a Data Entry Tech give yourself a more luxurious title like, Chief Data Distribution Specialist.
Use humor and sarcasm to get her laughing.
Physical Contact Refrain from asking her to check out the mole on your back, but get her to touch you.
You're trying to light up all her senses during this first encounter, just make sure you took a shower.
She'll definitely remember if you smell badly.