Follow the No Contact Rule Perhaps, you've already heard of the importance of the No Contact rule when it comes to getting her back.
Why does it work? The reason is the fact that it offers you girlfriend time and space she needs to rethink her life without your effort to "persuade" her otherwise.
Refrain from all forms of contact with her if you haven't already done so.
This means no emails, phone calls, messaging, or anything! Try this for at least two weeks.
This will provide the two of you with the time to individually sort things out.
Spend time to be the man she was first attracted to, like the time you both first began dating.
Keep in mind that you just wanted her then, not need her.
Are you giving off a desperate vibe when you feel as if you need her in your life? Most likely, yes.
In other words, take this time to work on your self-confidence and reconstruct your self-esteem because we know how much a breakup can do damage.
During the No Contact Time There will be times when you'll fall off, want to call it quits and call her.
All types of contact roused by feelings of desperation will just push her even further away from you.
Take time during the No Contact period to improve parts your life that you feel needs improvement.
For example, during your relationship with your girlfriend, you may have put other relationships on the back burner.
Have you been planning to take a new hobby or class but never got around to doing it? This is a perfect chance to check those things off your to-do list.
This might let you make some new friends along the way.
Ways To Contact Her You're most likely not ready to contact her if any of your feelings are fueled by need or desperation.
To make sure that she isn't taken off guard and rejects you right away, make sure you call her when you know she is at work or school.
Give a short and brief message, such as "hey, I've been thinking about you, would you like to catch up over a coffee sometime?" Anything along these lines sounds will be fine.
If she rejects you, don't let that get to you because you'll be fine with or without her.
Think this relationship as a new one to avoid going down the same road again, which is the road to break up.
Why does it work? The reason is the fact that it offers you girlfriend time and space she needs to rethink her life without your effort to "persuade" her otherwise.
Refrain from all forms of contact with her if you haven't already done so.
This means no emails, phone calls, messaging, or anything! Try this for at least two weeks.
This will provide the two of you with the time to individually sort things out.
Spend time to be the man she was first attracted to, like the time you both first began dating.
Keep in mind that you just wanted her then, not need her.
Are you giving off a desperate vibe when you feel as if you need her in your life? Most likely, yes.
In other words, take this time to work on your self-confidence and reconstruct your self-esteem because we know how much a breakup can do damage.
During the No Contact Time There will be times when you'll fall off, want to call it quits and call her.
All types of contact roused by feelings of desperation will just push her even further away from you.
Take time during the No Contact period to improve parts your life that you feel needs improvement.
For example, during your relationship with your girlfriend, you may have put other relationships on the back burner.
Have you been planning to take a new hobby or class but never got around to doing it? This is a perfect chance to check those things off your to-do list.
This might let you make some new friends along the way.
Ways To Contact Her You're most likely not ready to contact her if any of your feelings are fueled by need or desperation.
To make sure that she isn't taken off guard and rejects you right away, make sure you call her when you know she is at work or school.
Give a short and brief message, such as "hey, I've been thinking about you, would you like to catch up over a coffee sometime?" Anything along these lines sounds will be fine.
If she rejects you, don't let that get to you because you'll be fine with or without her.
Think this relationship as a new one to avoid going down the same road again, which is the road to break up.