Has your girlfriend just dropped you like a hot potato? You're probably feeling as low as you have ever felt right now.
Don't despair, I know that this is a very difficult time but there are things which you can do to get your ex girlfriend back if you still want her.
Grab yourself a hot coffee and get comfortable.
You are not the first guy to be dumped and you won't be the last.
But! Not everyone had the advantage which you are going to have shortly.
The difference with you is that you are going to have the chance to salvage the relationship and get back your ex girlfriend.
First of all, was it love, lust or just affection? This makes a big difference on the situation.
If you were together for a long time, the feeling which you are having now may be just separation anxiety not heartbreak.
If it was true love then you are in a world of pain and missing her is an understatement.
Do you know the reason for the break up? Sometimes you can go through life never quite understanding what went wrong.
You need to find out the reason if you don't already know.
If you have mutual friends then they could hold the answer.
Don't give too much away though, remember that they are mutual friends so anything you say could get back to your ex girlfriend.
For the purpose of this contact you are just trying to find out why your girlfriend left.
Large life changes can have an impact on a relationship; I actually lost a girlfriend because I changed jobs.
Honestly, sometimes there is no logic within a woman's mind.
I thought I had done the right thing but apparently the extra hours far outweighed the extra income.
There are things which you may have done or changed over the course of the last few months which may have had an impact on the relationship.
I know this sounds tough but finding out was the problem is will help in the long run, and this is usually the hardest part.
If all things go well with what I will tell you, your relationship will be stronger and more passionate that it was before.
In the meantime don't do anything which will push her further away, in fact, if possible avoid contact with her all together for now.
Don't worry, even if she has found a new man you can still get her back, but only if you want to and you are going to show some determination.
If you can want your ex girlfriend back and you are willing to work for it then you need to act fast, be a man and take control.
Too many people give up on a relationship because they think it's over, many times it is far from over.
Don't despair, I know that this is a very difficult time but there are things which you can do to get your ex girlfriend back if you still want her.
Grab yourself a hot coffee and get comfortable.
You are not the first guy to be dumped and you won't be the last.
But! Not everyone had the advantage which you are going to have shortly.
The difference with you is that you are going to have the chance to salvage the relationship and get back your ex girlfriend.
First of all, was it love, lust or just affection? This makes a big difference on the situation.
If you were together for a long time, the feeling which you are having now may be just separation anxiety not heartbreak.
If it was true love then you are in a world of pain and missing her is an understatement.
Do you know the reason for the break up? Sometimes you can go through life never quite understanding what went wrong.
You need to find out the reason if you don't already know.
If you have mutual friends then they could hold the answer.
Don't give too much away though, remember that they are mutual friends so anything you say could get back to your ex girlfriend.
For the purpose of this contact you are just trying to find out why your girlfriend left.
Large life changes can have an impact on a relationship; I actually lost a girlfriend because I changed jobs.
Honestly, sometimes there is no logic within a woman's mind.
I thought I had done the right thing but apparently the extra hours far outweighed the extra income.
There are things which you may have done or changed over the course of the last few months which may have had an impact on the relationship.
I know this sounds tough but finding out was the problem is will help in the long run, and this is usually the hardest part.
If all things go well with what I will tell you, your relationship will be stronger and more passionate that it was before.
In the meantime don't do anything which will push her further away, in fact, if possible avoid contact with her all together for now.
Don't worry, even if she has found a new man you can still get her back, but only if you want to and you are going to show some determination.
If you can want your ex girlfriend back and you are willing to work for it then you need to act fast, be a man and take control.
Too many people give up on a relationship because they think it's over, many times it is far from over.