While you are trying to get back your ex, you must make yourself extremely well aware on the strengths that had brought you two together in the first place.
These are the strengths that would help you attract your significant other back and help you keep you together again for a long period.
Analyze it.
Pause and think back inside your relationship of the good and great days.
What had attracted him/her to you? What had made you the angel of his/her eyes? What were the qualities, the positives, that had made him/her decide to spend the rest of the life with you? Some of these might be: - Enjoy similar movies and music - Enjoy a sport together - Travel enjoyments on the same places - Loved the same book or same kind of books or same/similar characters in same or different books - Loved talking to each other - Physical attraction - Similar tastes on cuisine and restaurants - Similarity in spiritual thoughts - Love for children and/or family Whatever it might be, there have to be some similarities, one or multiple.
In the beginning of a relationship, one thinks about the other almost consistently, so think back what was it that you were dreaming about him/her when you two had first met and first fallen in love.
It is critical that you spend a good deal of thought analyzing this.
Thoughts like this takes you back to the foundation of your love and you gain back that old spirit that had brought you together in the first place.
And this can play a fundamental role in your attempts to get him/her back.
Take an exercise right now.
Take out a paper and pen.
Spend the next 30 minutes thinking.
And write down all the positives you can think of.
Rewrite them based upon your ranking.