How to Compliment People So They Feel Wonderful Because of You
As you are sitting there, reading this, I'd like you to imagine a time when somebody made you feel really good.
(No, not like that!).
When somebody said something to you that made you feel really special.
Like they really saw the real you and appreciated who you really are.
Not like a politician, or a salesman, or somebody that just wanted something from you.
Few things feel better than a sincere, unexpected compliment from somebody that shows they not only understand you, but appreciate you as well.
Now imagine how you felt about the person that said that to you.
Pretty good, right? Well there is a simple way to make others feel just as good, and feel the same way about you.
The way to really notice and appreciate somebody is to first release any need for reciprocity.
Reciprocity is the natural tendency to pay back what we get from others.
When you give somebody a compliment, get rid of any ideas of what you think you'll get in return.
Give the person the freedom to respond any way they like if at all.
In your mind, imagine that the only reward you seek is knowing you made somebody feel really good.
When you give the compliment, choose to compliment them on something they did, a choice they made, or the way they've chosen do so something.
If you give compliments the way most people do, on superficial things like their looks, eyes, etc, it will come across as nice, but not particularly insightful.
It might seem like a good idea, but giving something a compliment on something that is out of their control only goes so far.
Giving someone a compliment on something they've done shows you have given them and their actions sufficient thought.
The next important concept is to make sure to choose something that you really admire, and not something you think other people will admire, or something that you should admire.
When you do this, they will be able to tell, and feel really appreciative of your comment.
Remember these three ideas when giving compliments.
Detachment from their response, awareness of their choice and sincerity of your words.
When you compliment people with these three simple things in mind, you will be amazed at how much your standing, confidence, and charisma will increase.
For more articles on how you can easily increase your pleasure in life, come have a look at my blog, and let us know what you think.
Many people, like you, have also decided to come on over and have a look at my videos on YouTube.
See you there.
(No, not like that!).
When somebody said something to you that made you feel really special.
Like they really saw the real you and appreciated who you really are.
Not like a politician, or a salesman, or somebody that just wanted something from you.
Few things feel better than a sincere, unexpected compliment from somebody that shows they not only understand you, but appreciate you as well.
Now imagine how you felt about the person that said that to you.
Pretty good, right? Well there is a simple way to make others feel just as good, and feel the same way about you.
The way to really notice and appreciate somebody is to first release any need for reciprocity.
Reciprocity is the natural tendency to pay back what we get from others.
When you give somebody a compliment, get rid of any ideas of what you think you'll get in return.
Give the person the freedom to respond any way they like if at all.
In your mind, imagine that the only reward you seek is knowing you made somebody feel really good.
When you give the compliment, choose to compliment them on something they did, a choice they made, or the way they've chosen do so something.
If you give compliments the way most people do, on superficial things like their looks, eyes, etc, it will come across as nice, but not particularly insightful.
It might seem like a good idea, but giving something a compliment on something that is out of their control only goes so far.
Giving someone a compliment on something they've done shows you have given them and their actions sufficient thought.
The next important concept is to make sure to choose something that you really admire, and not something you think other people will admire, or something that you should admire.
When you do this, they will be able to tell, and feel really appreciative of your comment.
Remember these three ideas when giving compliments.
Detachment from their response, awareness of their choice and sincerity of your words.
When you compliment people with these three simple things in mind, you will be amazed at how much your standing, confidence, and charisma will increase.
For more articles on how you can easily increase your pleasure in life, come have a look at my blog, and let us know what you think.
Many people, like you, have also decided to come on over and have a look at my videos on YouTube.
See you there.