Do you find yourself pining over someone who left you and you wish you could win him back? Winning an ex back can be difficult but not at all impossible.
The basis of your plan should be the initial communication.
During this fragile time, you want to be careful with your actions as one misstep could endanger the possibilities of reconciliation.
If he's the one who proposed to patch things up after the break up, don't impulsively run back into his arms but do the opposite.
A little reverse psychology i.
e.
severing all contact between you and him completely would do well to your part.
Get a little revenge by letting him has a taste of his own medicine, by forcing him to brood over his loss in hopes it will shed light of what he had put you through.
Most women often make the mistake of letting their life pass by while she concentrates on winning back her man.
Stop.
Don't hover around the man's life while he is enjoying his new found freedom.
Don't go to his favorite cafes, don't stalk him at his drycleaner's and don't sleep with him.
You are simply not giving him the space to miss your presence.
It is understandable that you want him to know that you are willing to do everything to have him back.
He is receiving all the benefit of a relationship without actually being in one with you.
What will that register in his psyche? You are letting him walk over you and that is not fair.
Sometimes it's hard to cut off contact if you have joint responsibilities (like raising children).
If such is the case, continue to see each other civilly.
Get on with you life that you managed before you were with him.
Chances are that you'll win him over by reminding him of what he was attracted to you before.